They say you get more with a carrot than you do a stick...
sometimes the stick can be effective especially at destruction!
Today's Scripture:
Patient persistence pierces through indifference; gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.
Proverbs 25:15
As much as you try, you cannot shield the people under your leadership from disappointment, disagreements, or discouragement. As long as people work together or serve customers, there will be times when they lose their tempers, get their feelings hurt, or maybe even misunderstand motives and decisions. Painful experiences can breed anger, resentment, and apathy. Indifference and defensiveness are definite barriers to an inspiring atmosphere.
So, one of the greatest challenges you face is that of motivating others to perform in spite of their personal feelings.
Reconciliation is simply bringing harmony in your organization. Before you can motivate others, first realize that apathy and defensiveness probably exist in your organization even if they are not prevalent or apparent. Being oblivious to the possibility of negativity in your home, church or workplace will not make it disappear. But yo can break down these destructive walls if you use the right approach and tools for the job.
When you find apathy evidenced by absenteeism or lack of passion, concern or productivity, be persistent in sharing your goals and visions for the future. Be patient in seeing change. Attitudes are not formed or changed overnight. If you use a kind word, even when responding to criticism or judgment, you will have more success than retaliating with like emotion. As the adage goes, "You can catch more flies with Honey than vinegar any day." Be sure to keep your eyes keen and your heart open to bring harmony into your workplace.
Selah people' and friends check the thermostat of your family, church, company or organization's harmony. Ask for honest opinions from your members about their feelings of unity and accord. If you find indifference, conquer it with gratitude and vision.
"Take time today to tear down the walls that stand between you and what God has planned for you life and those around you."
Your pastor,
Rev Patrick Muston
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