Showing posts with label Selah Leadership Series 2009. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Selah Leadership Series 2009. Show all posts

Monday, July 27, 2009

July 27, 2009 ~ Door-to-Door Wisdom

Have looked right on your own doorstep?

Today's Scripture:

Cynics look high and low for wisdom - and never find it; the open-minded find it right on their doorstep!

Proverbs 14:6

You have searched in every nook and cranny for your keys. After fifteen minutes and three people helping you, they are found right on your desk in the most obvious place. You never even thought to look on your desk. You were sure you would have noticed them before in such an obvious spot. Sometimes things are so apparent that they stare you in the face and you just overlook them.

Wisdom is required for you to be successful in leading your organization. Leaders are always seeking answers to questions and solutions to problems.

Sometimes the answers to your questions are right before you and you just do not recognize their value.

When you are searching for a new staff or employee, look at the obvious candidates within your organization. When you are trying to trim the budget, seek counsel form those with inside working knowledge of you company. More than likely, the employees know where time and product are wasted better than any outside consultant would know. Be sure to look in the obvious places for the answers and solutions to the problems you are seeking to resolve.

Sometimes you need a reminder that you can trust those around you to guide you and assist you in your leadership. By looking in the most obvious places and keeping an open mind to suggestions made by your own organization's experts, you may find that wisdom is all around you. This is not just true in secular business but in our families and in our church.

Selah people' and friends identify an issue you have been trying to resolve on your own. Ask a coworker or friend to share their expertise about the issue. Propose a change and negotiate the resolution within the organization regarding the issue.

"May we choose today to start looking in the obvious places for the help we need. Open the door and allow Christ to assist you in the tasks before you."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via Mobile : Wayne Memorial Park

Link to our media site with this weeks sermon share at Selah Christian Church:

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Sunday, July 26, 2009

July 26, 2009 ~ Unified Vision

Are you and those around you on the same page?

Today's Scripture:

Make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one heart and purpose.

Philippians 2:2
Like-mindedness brings harmony and unity to your group or organization. The more everyone in your work community embraces the values and goals of the organization, the more likely you will be successful in your endeavors. A conductor takes several different players and inspires them to work together to create one harmonious sound. Likewise, molding several differing opinions from a diverse work group is key to creating unity in an organization. Like the conductor, you begin by creating vision. Everyone in the orchestra needs to understand what the piece will sound like when it is accomplished.

Everyone in your organization needs to envision the organization's goal.

The conductor also consistently communicates the vision. After a group rehearsal, the conductor works with each section. He instructs them on how to perfect their contribution to the performance. Even within each section, some of the individual players may need specific direction or encouragement.

Finally, the conductor and leader alike compel others to embrace the vision. The players not only understand the vision, but they become part of accomplishing the vision, but they become part of accomplishing the vision. Once the players realize that their part is vital to the harmony of the piece, they understand their significance. Your responsibility is to create, communicate, and compel the vision for your organization. As the unified vision is embraced, harmony will resound.

Selah people' and friends rehearse your group or organization's vision in a simple explanation. Find new ways to make the vision fresh and compelling. Share it with others in your organization as inspiration for unity.


"Let us start a new day with the clear vision not only of our organization, but also a unified vision that Christ has for us as well."



Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston


Friday, July 24, 2009

July 24, 2009 ~ Thunderous Whisper


If you listen you will here the rumbling...a thunderous whisper from heaven!

Today's Scripture:

Trust the Lord with all your heart, and don't depend on your own understanding. Remember the Lord in all you do, and he will give you success.

Proverbs 3: 5-6

Airplanes and ships do not make any sense to me. Such masses of metal staying in the air or afloat in the sea seems impossible. Yet, millions of people board them every year for business travel and long-awaited vacations. Ants and bees cannot be explained either. Their bodies should not be able to exhibit such strength. I mean come on they surely do not look like an Mixed Martial Arts champion like a Brock Lesnar, nor a former Mr. Olympia like Governor Arnold Swartzenegger - "Conan the barbarian", "The Terminator". But you probably have witnessed bees buzzing in the air and ants carrying ten times their weight.

Sometimes you cannot depend on you own understanding or how or why things work.

I myself as a scrawny quarterback can remember times where God provided me the blessing of super human strength to push up 315 lbs. on my bench press surrounded by team mates. And in critical situations allowing me to push, pull or carry three to four opponents into the end zone to enable our team to score. It is experiences like this where truth is stranger than fiction, much like a fish story when you tell others unless they could see the miracle with their own eyes they will not believe it.

You cannot figure God out either. The Bible says that God knows the number of hairs on your head. He also hears every prayer that is spoken. How he can give his full attention to each person at the same time is puzzling and beyond our human comprehension. I know just to be a pickle plant manager it can be frustrating to have someone on the phone, while responding to an email and speaking to yet another coworker via radio and then here someone over the intercom paging you to call them or come to a shutdown on a production line. Sometimes you and I just have to trust what the Bible says about God, even if we cannot understand it.

If you listen closely, you can hear a thunderous whisper from heaven urging you to trust God more than your own reasoning. You may not see how you can have a profitable year with losses you have sustained, but you can trust that God will supply what you need whether or not you earn the profits you had hoped. Maybe you do not understand how you will ever get the job of your dreams or complete that degree that you seek, but you can trust that God can give you the wisdom and connect you with the right people at the right time. Just listen to his encouraging voice. He created the bee and the ant, didn't he?

Selah people' and friends look around you for the once-impossible things that have become possible. Encourage your faith and trust in God by giving him the credit for the possibilities in life.

"May we open our ears and our heart and listen to the thunderous whisper...what is God saying to you today? Do you have faith enough to believe that he will give you all the wisdom and strength to accomplish great things? Are you not as important as the tiny ant to him?"

Your pastor & friend,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile

Thursday, July 23, 2009

July 23, 2009 ~ 911!!!

Who do you call on in time of trouble, disaster or distress?

Today's Scripture:

The Lord said: "Surely it will be well with your remnant; surely I will cause the enemy to intercede with you in the time of adversity and in the time of affliction.

Jeremiah 15:11

Batman is sleeping in the bat cave. Superman is stuck in a phone booth. Aquaman, Wonder Woman and Spiderman cannot even be found. The movies never seem to have a problem finding rescuers for their disasters, but where is a superhero when you need one? Imagine shouting out for help when you have a financial crisis, and the Budget Buster comes with extra funds to help beef up you bank account and save the day. Maybe Captain Crisis could fly in and solve your problems when the machinery on the manufacturing line goes down at the pickle plant. That would be an awesome way to solve your problems and that sure would boost or productivity.

You can be rescued in times of crisis. Just as Batman stopped the Riddler and the Joker, God can stop your enemies in their tracks. Maybe enemy is too strong a word to use. Your business competitors or coworkers may not be trying to disable you with kryptonite. But there are people who sometimes present obstacles - either deliberately or unintentionally - in your path to success. When you have to work alongside those people for a period of time, it may feel as if you are fighting an enemy.

When you find yourself dealing with a disaster, do not distress. Never fear, help is near. You have a direct 911 line to God, not limited by cellular service or landlines. He can rescue you from your crisis even faster than a speeding bullet.

You do not need a superhero when you have God.

Selah people' and friends determine the biggest trial in your life right now. Call out for help. Then, list the ways you see God rescuing you from the trial.

"May we all shout to the one who can help regardless of our adversity or affliction...Jesus!"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile ~ Mount Olive, NC


Monday, July 20, 2009

July 20th, 2009 ~ Water Off a Duck's Back

The expression goes, “like water off a duck’s back.”


Often it’s used when talking about taking criticism. If you don’t let criticism affect you, then you’re letting it roll off your back like water rolls off a duck. I don’t have a huge problem with criticism...I mean, why would anyone want to criticize a little country preacher like me, right?

Today's Scripture:

A fool's wrath is known at once, but a prudent man covers shame.

Proverbs 12:16

People-watching is an intriguing hobby. If you want to learn about temperance, courtesy, or patience, you have only to visit a grocery store or shopping mall during a big sale like on Thanksgiving or any other holiday weekend. The roadways are filled with enraged drivers, and the long lines display many impatiently tapping feet. Sometimes you can even find a little pushing and shoving to grab that final coveted item off the shelf. But unfortunately, you do not have to wait for busy holidays to find irritated people.

Some people wear their frustration on their faces, and it resounds in their tones even at their jobs. Sometimes, you may even get caught in the cross fire (as we used to refer to ambush tactics back in ROTC training with the Rangers from Fort Bragg) of some one's dissatisfaction with a corporate policy or procedure. Try as you may, you kind smile may not be enough to ward off the sour disposition of a disenchanted coworker who has received the word from the front office.

But remember my friends you do not have to let someone else's challenge become your issue.


When you find yourself getting the brunt of another person's irritation, you can choose how to respond. You can retaliate by ignoring them or maybe even mirroring their behavior, but that reaction really only shows intemperance on your part as well. You can absorb the insult like a sponge and let its negative effect pervade your day. Or, you can simply let it roll off you like water off a duck's back. When you respond to an insult with kindness, you are proved to be the sensible person.

Selah people' and friends inquire of those around you at home, work and school. If you are soaking up the frustrations of others, make a determination to shake it off and have good day anyway.

"May we make a change in the way we handle the adversity and trials of those working with wrath. Seek His face and instead trying to absorb the insults shake em' off!"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via Mobile

Friday, July 17, 2009

July 16, 2009 ~ Chain of Command

Do you support your leaders?

Today's Scripture:

Most assuredly, I say to you, a servant is not greater than his master; nor is he who is sent greater than he who sent him.

John 13:16

Tenure and seniority are no longer brass rings t promotions in corporations. Skill, knowledge, a social adeptness are all as important as loyalty to most of the personnel decision makers. So, there are many times when a younger, less-experienced associate vying for the same position. In fact, there are times when the guy with the most seniority, who feels deserving of the position, is asked to train the new hire to do the job that he thought he would have himself.


Sometimes, it is hard to submit to your boss. But face it; everyone has a boss. The president answers to the executive board, and they in turn answer to the stockholders. It is hard to find where the buck actually stops at times. There will be times when you cannot agree or do not understand the decisions that your boss makes. If your boss is also the rookie that you trained, it may even magnify the challenge.

But even if you are wiser or more experienced, you will do well to respect the position of your boss.


Remember that you are no more, or less, important than your supervisor. Even if you doubt her decisions, you can be supportive by being submissive to her authority. Be the follower that you would like to lead. Offer understanding and support - even bosses need it now and then.


Selah people' and friends ask your boss what you can do to support or assist him with an upcoming project or challenge. Then follow through with no motive except that of genuine cooperation.


"Join me in respecting the authority in work and spiritually. God well bless you for it."


Your pastor,


Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via Mobile







Tuesday, July 14, 2009

July 14, 2009 ~ Fortitude

It takes more than physical strength to accomplish our goals!


Today's Scripture:

Be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.

2 Timothy 2:1

In the 80's stepping and aerobics were popular, in the 90's it was spinning, and in the new decade kickboxing and yoga have become the rage. Now many fitness experts explain that it is all about strengthening the core. By strengthening the muscles in your trunk areas you can better support your spine and movement. You can develop a strong core with concentrated movements in the midsection of your body. A strong muscular core helps all your muscles to operate in better harmony. Personal trainers assign crunches, stretches, and isometric movements to help you develop a powerful core that results in proper posture and a fit figure.


Consider your spiritual health as needing the same type of core strength. A regimen of physical exercises will not strengthen your spiritual core though. You can develop your spiritual strength by installing some simple exercises in your daily routine.
Prayer is central to your spiritual well being.
Prayer is simply conversation with God. The more you talk and listen to God, the more you will know Him and the stronger your core will become. Bible reading is another way to develop your strength spiritually. Read to learn and explore. Just as in physical exercise or martial arts training, you will discover that it energizes you to accomplish more in your day.

When you have a stable relationship with God, it pervades other areas of your life. You will find that a strong spiritual core will fortify your relationships, your peace of mind, and your worldview. Start exercising not only the body, but the soul, too.
Selah people' and friends you can combine your physical exercise with your spiritual strengthening. One thing you can try which I gain strength from is to say a simple "breath" prayer while you walk, run on the treadmill, ride your bike, lifting weights, pounding on a heavy bag or whatever exercise your doing this week. It is a way to build your core for Christ both physically and spiritually. Keep growing not just your muscles but also more importantly your spirit and relationship with the Lord. This will help you persevere through the trials that life brings and make a big impact on those around you.

"Don't procrastinate any longer get to work on your core body, mind and soul."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via Mobile

Monday, July 13, 2009

July 13, 2009 ~ A Real Piece of Work

Why were you made the way you are?

Today's Scripture:

We are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.

Ephesians 2:10

If you have been searching for your identity, you have just hit the jackpot. Ephesians contains it all by telling you who you are, why you were created, when your job was planned, and what you are to do every day. First of all, you are His workmanship. That is, you are God's own design.

God imagined you and created you. You were sculpted by God.

The reason you were created was to do good works. You need only determine which good works you will do. You will find your significance in what you do for others. God prepared your opportunities in advance. When you were created, God assigned opportunities to you. There are no coincidences in you life or mine. I assure you with all I know and have learned since I arrived on this earth in 1969 that God has a plan for each of us. Each day is scheduled by God's plan.

You know who you are and why you were created; now you are to carry out those good works. In other words, you should look for your opportunities to do good things for others. You were specifically designed to do so; your life is significant to others. As you go throughout your day, pause frequently and observe the opportunities around you. Take advantage of the moments that you can open a door for a stranger, buy some one's lunch, or give a friend a ride home. You may be surprised at the accomplishment you feel at the end of the day.

Selah people' and friends try to do something good for a new person every day for a week. At the end of the week, reflect on the ways that those good things affected both you and the people you blessed.

"Take the time today to reflect on the work that God created you to be. Once you identify those areas He wants you to labor don't hesitate to jump in and thrive at His calling for you."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ posted Via Mobile


Friday, July 10, 2009

July 10, 2009 ~ The Servant Leader

Do you look after the sheep God has put in your fold?


Today's Scripture:


Care for the flock God entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly - not for what you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God.

1 Peter 5:2


A school principal once said that she couldn't wait for the summer to come. She explained that she could get so much more work done without all the teachers, parents and staff interrupting her all the time. Her work had become drudgery. Her job was about completing tasks and earning a paycheck, rather than helping parents and teachers make a difference in the education of children.

It is easy to fall into the daily grind. Your job can so consume you that you lose focus. Your friends, family or church members, employees or customers can rely on you to the point of your distress. If you find you are more concerned with getting things done than affecting people, it may be time to remember the sheep. Peter gave us the illustration of the shepherd caring for the sheep to remind us that others rely on you and I.

Those who are under your care expect you to protect, guide, and nurture them.

Sometimes sheep stray or bite. But it is the shepherd's responsibility to discipline them and teach them the correct way to live with the other sheep.

Think of yourself as a shepherd with your own flock. As a leader, you are called to a special purpose. You are a shepherd. You may need to nurture others to serve customers, teach them to lead their friends, family, coworkers, or train them to earn profits. Realize your significance to those counting on you, and lead them with care. With great blessings comes great responsibility.

Selah people' and friends count your sheep as well as your blessings - make a list of those who count on you for guidance and nurture. You will be surprised at all those you have an impact on. Assess your shepherding skills with each one under your care.

"Choose to make time to refine you skills that allow you to be a "good shepherd"...your effort to nurture God's flock will be rewarded on earth and in heaven."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via Mobile ~ Mount Olive, NC




Thursday, July 9, 2009

July 9, 2009 ~ Around the Water cooler

Where do you gather to share information?

Today's Scripture:

Don't use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.

Ephesians 4:29

Every organization has a hub for casual conversation. Whether it is the coffee pot, the water cooler, the teacher's lounge, the break room or perhaps today it may be through twitter, myspace or facebook. There is likely a place where the Monday news can be heard buzzing...be honest you know just what I'm talking about. You may find a challenge in avoiding the hub of conversation altogether. But you can sound a different voice amid the chatter.

Unwholesome talk covers a lot of ground. You could consider negativity, rumors, gossip, and untruth to be unwholesome. Whew. You may think you have that covered, since you do not involve yourself in such destructive communication. But wait. When you read beyond the warning of what not to do, you are presented with a challenge.

It is not enough to use self-control only to withhold unsavory conversation.

Silence alone is not the self-control needed in the workplace. You fight against a negative with a positive. Engage yourself in the building up of others.

The challenge presented to you here is to encourage others according to their needs. Ignoring others is not an option. You are to help them by encouraging them in the areas that they need it. You are to benefit others with your words. Your voice may be a lone voice in a cloud of conversation. But your words can bring hope and inspiration to others.

Selah people' and friends join a conversation that you would normally avoid. Infuse positive and encouraging comments in the dialogue. Meet the challenge of meeting the needs of others. This has been my inspiration and what continues to motivate me to thrive at working my secular work at Mount Olive Pickle and my God calling as pastor of Selah Christian Church in both areas our Lord allows me to be an encourager to others where they are in the middle of the business we call life.

"Make today the day you don't hide from those gathered about in gossip but get in there and bring a positive voice by living the word of God and by being Christ to those who are lost."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile phone UNC Hospital ~ Chapel Hill, NC


Tuesday, July 7, 2009

July 7, 2009 ~ Man with a Mission

Is your mission and path clear?

Today's Scripture:

God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.

John 3:17

Jesus Christ was a man with a mission. He stated that his mission was to come to earth to offer salvation to those who wanted it. Everything that Jesus did was focused toward accomplishing that mission. Jesus was a man of prayer, instruction, and encouragement, all of which led others to believe in his mission. He was able to state his mission in life to others very clearly. He made it known, with no hidden agenda.

You can follow the example of Jesus in this way. Know your mission and state it in ten to fifteen words that you can recite easily. One woman's mission statement it to "ignite others' passion for Christ," and she carries it out as a prayer leader in her church. Another woman's mission is to "help others realize their full potential." She lives it out by homeschooling her children and mentoring youth in the community. Develop your own God given mission statement that can be a guide to your life.

Once you are sure of your mission statement, be willing and ready to share your mission with others. It may mean you need to study or have additional skills or credentials as I found I needed to do when I went from part time to full ministry serving as a pastor for the first time. I had to commit two years to growing and completing courses to be accomplish becoming fully ordained. Did I need that paper or classes to show other my calling? No, but to continue my mission and call to serve as pastor it was a necessary step in the journey. Like Christ, commit your endeavors to God through daily prayer.

Teach others what you have learned in life.

Encourage them to succeed as you have succeeded. Jesus was not shy to share his mission. It was embedded in him and in those around him through his words and actions. Follow his example and live out the mission of your life.

Selah people' and friends share your mission in life with someone else this week. Ask them to help you stay focused on that mission as you address the various areas of responsibility God has placed in your life. Your mission much like an exercise plan or diet has much more chance of success if you have a partner helping to keep you on track and you have your eye on the prize that God has in store for you if you stay committed to his direction.

"Choose today to seize the opportunity of coming out of the fog and focusing on the direction and mission Christ has for your life."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile: Mount Olive, NC


Monday, July 6, 2009

July 6, 2009 ~ Woe Is Me

Is taking the call the right thing to do?
Today's Scripture:
Obedience is far better than sacrifice.

1 Samuel 15:22

Cell phones can be such a nuisance. It seems that wherever you go, some one's obnoxious ring or boisterous conversation can be overheard by everyone around him. Cell phone interruptions can even be heard in churches, at weddings, and yes at funerals as we stand at the graveside paying our respects to those we love, of all places. You wonder if the mandate of a cell phone makes a person feel more needed or important. The urgency of leaving a business meeting to receive a call has seemingly replaced the rudeness of entering late because one was caught on the phone with an important call. Some even have the brashness to announce the reason for the call in a martyr's tone.

When you see others arriving late to meetings or answering interrupting phone calls, it does not mean that they are more important or indispensable than you or I. Sacrificing your personal time, or someone else's professional time, does not equate to importance or success.

It is far better to set your phone on silent ring and respect those in the meeting with you and honor both them and yourself by choosing not to take the intruding call.

Serving God does not have to be so sacrificial that it causes inconvenience or disruption in your life. God does not expect everyone to sacrifice to the point of woe or martyrdom. But he is interested in your obedience to him. When you pray or read your Bible, give God your full attention. You can please him by accomplishing those things that he asks of you.

Selah people' and friends set your clock or reminder a few minutes early so that you can arrive early to meetings and gatherings. Set your phone to off or silent ring while there so that you can give your full attention where it is due. This is true for special time with friends and family as well...you can't be with them 100% if your texting, emailing or talking on your phone. When your with people you care about and respect look them in the eye and really be there and enjoy the time that God has given you to be together.

"Take the time to really give yourself to those you are with today, don't give them only a piece of you while the rest of you worries about the call that may or may not come. "

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile: Mount Olive, NC


Friday, July 3, 2009

Church Leaders Report July 4th,2009

God Bless you and God Bless America!

As Christians it is important stay up with current happenings around us. Even when don't always agree or disagree with events taking place will still should try to gain as much wisdom and growth we can so we can make informed decisions. Take time out today to be aware of this wonderful country God has blessed us with and remember those how continue to fight for the freedom we all enjoy.

Happy July 4th 2009 as we celebrate our countries 233rd birthday!

Received this video shared from my good friend Phil Hood that reminds us why we celebrate the 4th of July.

Rev Patrick Muston, pastor

Selah Christian Church Disciples of Christ
Four Oaks, NC

Thursday, July 2, 2009

July 2, 2009 ~ Treasure Hunt

What treasure are you seeking?


Today's Scripture:

My son, if you receive my words, and treasure my commands within you, so that you incline your ear to wisdom, and apply your heart to understanding; yes, if you cry out for discernment, and lift up your voice for understanding, if you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures; then you will understand the fear of the Lord, and find the knowledge of God.

Proverbs 2: 1-5

If you were a Spielberg fan in the1980s, you may have seen Goonies, the story of a group of self-proclaimed misfits searching for a lost treasure. Although thee goonies were ridiculed for believing that the gold could be found, they searched diligently for the treasure. When the kids found the treasure ship full of the "rich stuff" as they called it, they were careful to leave the captain's treasure untouched. They maintained respect for the captain and a healthy fear of his warnings not to touch his personal treasure. In doing so, they were able to avoid the booby traps and later rescue their families from financial ruin with the remaining treasure that they discovered in the sunken ship.

Wisdom is the real "rich stuff" for which you should search. insight is more valuable than gold and gems. Just as the goonies found their treasure, you can find the hidden treasure of understanding if you seek diligently. Proverbs even gives a treasure map to follow. Listen to wiser, more experienced leaders around you. Try to understanding the way they think. Ask questions of them. Study diligently in the areas they suggest you need to grow as a leader.

When you seek wisdom, you will gain understanding of the power of God.

Just as the goonies respected the captain, maintain a proper balance of respect and fear by heeding God's advice. He has a storehouse of treasured wisdom waiting for you to find it.

Selah people' and friends target an area of your job in which you need more wisdom. With the help of a mentor, develop and implement an action plan to more effectively address the targeted area.

"May our hunt to find the treasure God intended by revealed in the map that he has left to show us the way."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston


Wednesday, July 1, 2009

July 1, 2009 ~ Spiritual Recess

We need to take time each day to just relax with God...
Today's Scripture:
In quietness and confidence shall be your strength.

Isaiah 30:15

Taking a rest seems unthinkable to some type A personalities...trust me I'm one of them and it is a daily battle I must face. They ask why you would waste time doing nothing when you could be doing something. You can even spot their "If you have time to lean, you have time to clean" signs posted in the departments they manage.

But just as rest from physical labor is required for the body, so also rest for the mind and soul is needed.

When you give thought to the word restoration, you find its simple definition within the word rest-oration. In other words, stop talking, texting, emailing or calling. Even the silent rehearsing of conversations does not bring restoration to your mind or soul. Many leaders complain that they cannot fall asleep or sleep very little at night because it takes so long to downshift the activity of their brains. Your brain processes so much information every second that you need to allow it to slow down and recharge every now and then.

You can find many ways to strengthen your mind through simple silent treatments. Like some southerners like us, may follow the example found in Britain and enjoy some tea in the afternoon...now ours may be Iced sweet tea vs. the hot High tea of the British but you get the feeling. Using the time to sit quietly and listen to soothing music or just be out on the deck or porch taking in the sounds of nature or poolside in the summer. Take a ten-minute field trip by daydreaming about an exotic destination. Or you might even venture to have a five-minute nap in the afternoon. Give your mind and spirit some down time. You will find the recess quiet refreshing and rejuvenating.

Selah people' and friends set your timer for five to ten minutes of quiet time in the afternoon. Refrain from reading, talking, or planning. Turn of the cell and take your land-line off the hook. Just listen to relaxing sounds and allow God to speak to you in the still small voice of quiet let Him restore your soul.

"Choose today to begin taking that time to spend just you and God. Step away from the distractions of the world and you will fill revived!"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston - Via mobile ~ Mount Olive, NC


Tuesday, June 30, 2009

A Little Dab Won't Do for a Leader

Back in the 1950's a dab of this stuff would keep hair in place...
When we lead today we must use more than just a dab of repsponsibilty.

Today's Scripture:
For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more.

Luke 12:48

Unlike the Brylcreem in today's blog photo that held the ducktailed and greaser hairdos in place back in the 1950's, a dab of responsibility will not cover it for those who take on the role of leader. Leaders are responsible for decisions that affect people, processes, and profits on a daily basis - a great responsibility also increases. If you aspire to be a great leader, expect to accept increasing levels of responsibility.

The higher you climb in your group or organization the more authority you are likely to be assigned.

The privilege of exercising new authority costs an increasing amount of responsibility for the people and tasks under your supervision.

Often, the visibility of your success and mistakes more your position is elevated in the organization, the less of their effects. You are accountable to your organization for how well you assume your responsibility.

The realization that other people are counting on your decisions can be sobering. But be encouraged. With increased authority and responsibility also comes the opportunity of greater influence. If you want to impact others around you, your influence is vital. Unlike hair cream, you cannot just smear a dab of responsibility here and there. Effective leaders consistently accept responsibility and exercise influence for organizational success.

Selah people' and friends take some unsolicited initiative and volunteer for a new project or task at work. Prove yourself trustworthy of the responsibility by completing the assignment successfully.

"Don't just dab it, gel it or spritz it...build up you initiative to take on more responsibility and know that God will not put more on you than He will give you all that you need to accomplish His goals for you."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston


Sunday, June 28, 2009

June 28, 2009 ~ R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Daddy and my Papa always said "a man was only as good as their word"!

Today's Scripture:
A person who speaks truth is respected.

Proverbs 21:28

Although you may be granted power, you are not as easily given respect. Respect is not bestowed upon you as you attain positions of authority. You have been told that respect must be earned, not demanded. But no one gives an exact formula for earning it. You may have been told that you must prove yourself. But how you have to prove yourself may not be explained.

The way to gain respect among your peers is to continually keep your word.

You may remember your parents or grandparents using such phrases as "His word is his bond" or the "gentleman's agreement." The notion that a man's word is as sacred as a written contract is almost obsolete in most of today's society. I will make you a promise that I will do everything in my power to accomplish a task I've promised to you even if it means walking across hot coals. Although for some your word may not be as highly esteemed in this era, you can however increase its value.

By keeping your word as your bond, people will at least hear you out. When you have their attention, you should speak truthfully. Speaking the truth is not always easy, and it doesn't mean that you have to hurt others with unabashed honesty. Truth telling is simply speaking only what you know is true. Repeating unsubstantiated opinions or rumors about others is not trustworthy. When you say what you mean, and you mean what you say, people may not always like your message, but they will learn to trust it. You earn respect by the proven validity and reliability of your word overt time.

Selah people' and friends when you are asked your opinion of a matter, consciously decide to tell the truth. You may have to buffer it with gracious words, but speak truthfully and keep your word, and you will get respect.

"May today be the day we honor God by honoring our word to family, friends and all whom we speak. Make a commitment to not give away your word without backing it 100%."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Saturday, June 27, 2009

June 27th, 2009 ~ Seeking Popularity?

Many strive to be popular, just remember your reputation...
if you build your character with integrity and service, others
will tell of your good works, thus allowing them to see the Jesus in you.


Today's Scripture:

A wise person gets know for insight; gracious words add to one's reputation.

Proverbs 16:21

The search for popularity begins in what I remember as junior high school or today known as middle school particularly like my own daughter around sixth grade and once it begins to be important it seemingly never ends for some people. Girls want to be the sought-after best friend, and guys seek to be admired for their bravery. Adults do not escape the lure of popularity either. Many careers require it. Popularity certainly benefits celebrities, politicians, and lobbyists. But even careers for the average Joe can benefit from popularity. Whether you are the county's highest-regarded attorney or the town's most coveted wedding planner, popularity attracts clients.

Although your reputation is not based on your popularity alone, it certainly contributes to it.

Popularity comes from two sources: notoriety and acclaim.

You can determine which you attain with your actions. If you build your reputation by sharing insight and kindness with others, you will gain a good reputation. When you share the wisdom that you have with others, they appreciate it. If you can help them and they are willing to learn, lend your knowledge. When you generously and graciously benefit others by what you have learned, they will begin to seek out your advice.

I was watching a movie with my daughter and the two characters shared this important point of how we really are and what we do and how others perceive us to be. One of the girls was royalty...a princess and the other girl was "bait girl", just an average teen who learned that with the responsibility of royals it is more than power, money or designer clothing that makes others respect and admire you, it is about what you do to serve others and how you treat them. Thus regardless if we are royals or not when we serve others well they will in turn love and admire us for that service and what a great way to be known or in the context of today's blog be "truly popular".

Earn you popularity through a strong and influential reputation my friends. Your reputation is a reflection of your character. Don't fall to temptation as so many of our celebrities and world leaders do every day as we look at the news and headlines. Remember they are just people like you and me regardless of fame and perhaps how much we admire them and their accomplishments. As you concentrate more on developing your own character with integrity and service, others will tell of your good works and build your reputation for you.

Selah people and friends target someone who seems to be struggling in an area in which you have knowledge. Lend your expertise to them on a gratis basis. Your investment will be returned to you by their accolades.

"Choose today to build your character by serving God and others as for the popularity, if you live with integrity and strive to be Christ like all the popularity will come. They will know we are Christians by our love, by our love. Yes they will know we are Christians when we become one in the spirit and one in the Lord."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston - Via mobile ~ Mt.Olive, NC

Friday, June 26, 2009

June 26, 2009 ~ In over Your Head

Have you ever gone off the deep end and realize you went too far?

Today's Scripture:

If you quit listening, dear child, and strike off on your own, you'll soon be out of your depth.

Proverbs 19:27

Many times beach lovers find that they have waded out farther into the ocean than they thought. They ignore the posted warnings and disregard the lifeguards' signal, thinking that they know their own limitations. But soon you find them bobbing up and down, waving their arms for help, once they realize that indeed they are too deep and too far out into the ocean to make their way back safely.

You may have experienced that feeling of being in over your head in the water or even in business. You didn't mean to get so carried away; you thought that you could handle the waves and undertow on your own. But self-reliance will lure you into deep waters without your even noticing.

When you think that you can rely on your own ability, skill, or strength to sustain you, be warned.

Eventually your body, mind, or spirit will run out of strength.

If you find that you are out of your depth and need a little help, rely on God. If you stay within his sight and heed his guidelines, you can protect yourself from getting in too deep. God knows just how much you can handle. He also knows how to rescue you if you slip off too far from him. Ask him to throw you a life preserver if needed. Then stay close to his counsel to ensure your security.

Selah people' and friends determine in what areas of life you are struggling to keep your head above water. Examine some ways that you can engage your faith to rely on God for help in those situations.

"Let us go over the falls for God and whatever it is He calls us to do. Don't worry with him we will always come to the surface and be safe even when we don't see a lifeguard on duty He will be there."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston




Thursday, June 25, 2009

June 25, 2009 ~ Common Folk

Do you jump in and unite with your people?

Today's Scripture:

Don't try to act important, but enjoy the company of ordinary people.

Romans 12:16

Executives, managers, line workers, and facility engineers are all the same - just people and each one is just as important in the work an organization is trying to accomplish. Sometimes in the corporate world you can get caught up in the caste system of the organization. Some companies have executive boardrooms, exclusive health clubs, and even elite dining rooms. In those types of organizations, the coveted club key becomes the symbol of success and acceptance. It may also become the mark of division in important relationships.

You may feel that you have arrived when you get moved to the corner office on the executive floor. It may seem that you have finally crossed over to the other side of the tracks. You have left the commoners behind much like the old television show "The Jefferson's", you are moving on up...and now you can mingle with the royalty of your organization. But please know that just because you are moving up does not mean you have to leave old friends behind.

The opportunity of a high position affords you the chance to be a bridge among all positions of people in your association. Your identity does not have to be determined by your place in the organizational chart. When you treat the mail guy or the folks making your copies with the same respect as the vice president or the CEO, you have really achieved success. As you move up the ranks, be sure to remember who you really are and where you have come from: you are a commoner blessed with royal opportunities.

Allow your humility to sustain positive relationships among all the people around you despite their positions in the organization.

Selah people' and friends get to know some of your coworkers or reunite with old friends by starting conversations with people from another department of division in your group or company. Do not limit your relationships. Try to meet someone new this week and be an encourager to all you can, not just to the "Big" boss.

"Grab someone today shake their hand and show them just how much God loves you and them."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ... Via Mobile ~ Mount Olive, NC