A Little Dab Won't Do for a Leader

Back in the 1950's a dab of this stuff would keep hair in place...

When we lead today we must use more than just a dab of repsponsibilty.

Today's Scripture:

For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more.

Luke 12:48

Unlike the Brylcreem in today's blog photo that held the ducktailed and greaser hairdos in place back in the 1950's, a dab of responsibility will not cover it for those who take on the role of leader. Leaders are responsible for decisions that affect people, processes, and profits on a daily basis - a great responsibility also increases. If you aspire to be a great leader, expect to accept increasing levels of responsibility.

The higher you climb in your group or organization the more authority you are likely to be assigned.

The privilege of exercising new authority costs an increasing amount of responsibility for the people and tasks under your supervision.

Often, the visibility of your success and mistakes more your position is elevated in the organization, the less of their effects. You are accountable to your organization for how well you assume your responsibility.

The realization that other people are counting on your decisions can be sobering. But be encouraged. With increased authority and responsibility also comes the opportunity of greater influence. If you want to impact others around you, your influence is vital. Unlike hair cream, you cannot just smear a dab of responsibility here and there. Effective leaders consistently accept responsibility and exercise influence for organizational success.

Selah people' and friends take some unsolicited initiative and volunteer for a new project or task at work. Prove yourself trustworthy of the responsibility by completing the assignment successfully.

"Don't just dab it, gel it or spritz it...build up you initiative to take on more responsibility and know that God will not put more on you than He will give you all that you need to accomplish His goals for you."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

June 28, 2009 ~ R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Daddy and my Papa always said "a man was only as good as their word"!

Today's Scripture:

A person who speaks truth is respected.

Proverbs 21:28

Although you may be granted power, you are not as easily given respect. Respect is not bestowed upon you as you attain positions of authority. You have been told that respect must be earned, not demanded. But no one gives an exact formula for earning it. You may have been told that you must prove yourself. But how you have to prove yourself may not be explained.

The way to gain respect among your peers is to continually keep your word.

You may remember your parents or grandparents using such phrases as "His word is his bond" or the "gentleman's agreement." The notion that a man's word is as sacred as a written contract is almost obsolete in most of today's society. I will make you a promise that I will do everything in my power to accomplish a task I've promised to you even if it means walking across hot coals. Although for some your word may not be as highly esteemed in this era, you can however increase its value.

By keeping your word as your bond, people will at least hear you out. When you have their attention, you should speak truthfully. Speaking the truth is not always easy, and it doesn't mean that you have to hurt others with unabashed honesty. Truth telling is simply speaking only what you know is true. Repeating unsubstantiated opinions or rumors about others is not trustworthy. When you say what you mean, and you mean what you say, people may not always like your message, but they will learn to trust it. You earn respect by the proven validity and reliability of your word overt time.

Selah people' and friends when you are asked your opinion of a matter, consciously decide to tell the truth. You may have to buffer it with gracious words, but speak truthfully and keep your word, and you will get respect.

"May today be the day we honor God by honoring our word to family, friends and all whom we speak. Make a commitment to not give away your word without backing it 100%."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

June 27th, 2009 ~ Seeking Popularity?

Many strive to be popular, just remember your reputation...

if you build your character with integrity and service, others

will tell of your good works, thus allowing them to see the Jesus in you.

Today's Scripture:

A wise person gets know for insight; gracious words add to one's reputation.

Proverbs 16:21

The search for popularity begins in what I remember as junior high school or today known as middle school particularly like my own daughter around sixth grade and once it begins to be important it seemingly never ends for some people. Girls want to be the sought-after best friend, and guys seek to be admired for their bravery. Adults do not escape the lure of popularity either. Many careers require it. Popularity certainly benefits celebrities, politicians, and lobbyists. But even careers for the average Joe can benefit from popularity. Whether you are the county's highest-regarded attorney or the town's most coveted wedding planner, popularity attracts clients.

Although your reputation is not based on your popularity alone, it certainly contributes to it.

Popularity comes from two sources: notoriety and acclaim.

You can determine which you attain with your actions. If you build your reputation by sharing insight and kindness with others, you will gain a good reputation. When you share the wisdom that you have with others, they appreciate it. If you can help them and they are willing to learn, lend your knowledge. When you generously and graciously benefit others by what you have learned, they will begin to seek out your advice.

I was watching a movie with my daughter and the two characters shared this important point of how we really are and what we do and how others perceive us to be. One of the girls was royalty...a princess and the other girl was "bait girl", just an average teen who learned that with the responsibility of royals it is more than power, money or designer clothing that makes others respect and admire you, it is about what you do to serve others and how you treat them. Thus regardless if we are royals or not when we serve others well they will in turn love and admire us for that service and what a great way to be known or in the context of today's blog be "truly popular".

Earn you popularity through a strong and influential reputation my friends. Your reputation is a reflection of your character. Don't fall to temptation as so many of our celebrities and world leaders do every day as we look at the news and headlines. Remember they are just people like you and me regardless of fame and perhaps how much we admire them and their accomplishments. As you concentrate more on developing your own character with integrity and service, others will tell of your good works and build your reputation for you.

Selah people and friends target someone who seems to be struggling in an area in which you have knowledge. Lend your expertise to them on a gratis basis. Your investment will be returned to you by their accolades.

"Choose today to build your character by serving God and others as for the popularity, if you live with integrity and strive to be Christ like all the popularity will come. They will know we are Christians by our love, by our love. Yes they will know we are Christians when we become one in the spirit and one in the Lord."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston - Via mobile ~ Mt.Olive, NC

June 26, 2009 ~ In over Your Head

Have you ever gone off the deep end and realize you went too far?

Today's Scripture:

If you quit listening, dear child, and strike off on your own, you'll soon be out of your depth.

Proverbs 19:27

Many times beach lovers find that they have waded out farther into the ocean than they thought. They ignore the posted warnings and disregard the lifeguards' signal, thinking that they know their own limitations. But soon you find them bobbing up and down, waving their arms for help, once they realize that indeed they are too deep and too far out into the ocean to make their way back safely.

You may have experienced that feeling of being in over your head in the water or even in business. You didn't mean to get so carried away; you thought that you could handle the waves and undertow on your own. But self-reliance will lure you into deep waters without your even noticing.

When you think that you can rely on your own ability, skill, or strength to sustain you, be warned.

Eventually your body, mind, or spirit will run out of strength.

If you find that you are out of your depth and need a little help, rely on God. If you stay within his sight and heed his guidelines, you can protect yourself from getting in too deep. God knows just how much you can handle. He also knows how to rescue you if you slip off too far from him. Ask him to throw you a life preserver if needed. Then stay close to his counsel to ensure your security.

Selah people' and friends determine in what areas of life you are struggling to keep your head above water. Examine some ways that you can engage your faith to rely on God for help in those situations.

"Let us go over the falls for God and whatever it is He calls us to do. Don't worry with him we will always come to the surface and be safe even when we don't see a lifeguard on duty He will be there."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

June 25, 2009 ~ Common Folk

Do you jump in and unite with your people?

Today's Scripture:

Don't try to act important, but enjoy the company of ordinary people.

Romans 12:16

Executives, managers, line workers, and facility engineers are all the same - just people and each one is just as important in the work an organization is trying to accomplish. Sometimes in the corporate world you can get caught up in the caste system of the organization. Some companies have executive boardrooms, exclusive health clubs, and even elite dining rooms. In those types of organizations, the coveted club key becomes the symbol of success and acceptance. It may also become the mark of division in important relationships.

You may feel that you have arrived when you get moved to the corner office on the executive floor. It may seem that you have finally crossed over to the other side of the tracks. You have left the commoners behind much like the old television show "The Jefferson's", you are moving on up...and now you can mingle with the royalty of your organization. But please know that just because you are moving up does not mean you have to leave old friends behind.

The opportunity of a high position affords you the chance to be a bridge among all positions of people in your association. Your identity does not have to be determined by your place in the organizational chart. When you treat the mail guy or the folks making your copies with the same respect as the vice president or the CEO, you have really achieved success. As you move up the ranks, be sure to remember who you really are and where you have come from: you are a commoner blessed with royal opportunities.

Allow your humility to sustain positive relationships among all the people around you despite their positions in the organization.

Selah people' and friends get to know some of your coworkers or reunite with old friends by starting conversations with people from another department of division in your group or company. Do not limit your relationships. Try to meet someone new this week and be an encourager to all you can, not just to the "Big" boss.

"Grab someone today shake their hand and show them just how much God loves you and them."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ... Via Mobile ~ Mount Olive, NC

June 24, 2009 ~ The Wall Came Tumbling Down

They say you get more with a carrot than you do a stick...

sometimes the stick can be effective especially at destruction!

Today's Scripture:

Patient persistence pierces through indifference; gentle speech breaks down rigid defenses.

Proverbs 25:15

As much as you try, you cannot shield the people under your leadership from disappointment, disagreements, or discouragement. As long as people work together or serve customers, there will be times when they lose their tempers, get their feelings hurt, or maybe even misunderstand motives and decisions. Painful experiences can breed anger, resentment, and apathy. Indifference and defensiveness are definite barriers to an inspiring atmosphere.

So, one of the greatest challenges you face is that of motivating others to perform in spite of their personal feelings.

Reconciliation is simply bringing harmony in your organization. Before you can motivate others, first realize that apathy and defensiveness probably exist in your organization even if they are not prevalent or apparent. Being oblivious to the possibility of negativity in your home, church or workplace will not make it disappear. But yo can break down these destructive walls if you use the right approach and tools for the job.

When you find apathy evidenced by absenteeism or lack of passion, concern or productivity, be persistent in sharing your goals and visions for the future. Be patient in seeing change. Attitudes are not formed or changed overnight. If you use a kind word, even when responding to criticism or judgment, you will have more success than retaliating with like emotion. As the adage goes, "You can catch more flies with Honey than vinegar any day." Be sure to keep your eyes keen and your heart open to bring harmony into your workplace.

Selah people' and friends check the thermostat of your family, church, company or organization's harmony. Ask for honest opinions from your members about their feelings of unity and accord. If you find indifference, conquer it with gratitude and vision.

"Take time today to tear down the walls that stand between you and what God has planned for you life and those around you."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Share the Spotlight

Do you celebrate alone...or do you share it with others?

(Caution: This photo is of a professional driver on a closed course. LOL)

Today's Scripture:

Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it's in your power to help them.

Proverbs 3:27

Whether the final encore bow of the musical, the MVP trophy at the awards banquet, or the album of the year award, one person is often chosen to receive the winning prize. But most of the time the individual could not have succeeded in his or her win alone. The musical needs a performer or technician to provide the music, the most valuable player requires a teammate to assist on the field, and the songwriter needs a vocalist to present their words to the world.

Just as a winner of a grand award needs someone to help him succeed, so a leader needs an associate. When great success occurs, the leader is often standing in the shining spotlight. After all, even if you were not directly involved in accomplishing the task, you were responsible for the team selection and delegation of those who did achieve the success. But the spotlight should be shared. I know in my secular work my job as a manager is a position much like the coach on a ball team...I put together the team, make sure they have all needed equipment, gear, etc. and train them up and come up with and communicate our game plan, then I have to step aside on the sideline and watch and cheer as they perform. True I can make adjustments to the personnel or even to the plan as the day goes by but I can only be one part of it and it takes efforts of many to make impossible feats possible.

We need to recognize those people around us who faithfully contribute to achieving our goals.

Simply give credit where credit is due. If someone compliments your new letterhead or idea for a new product design explain that it was Eva's ideas and the one who came up with the perfect color combination of the ink color or that Mike came up with the new logo idea for the t-shirt design. When others rave about the excellence of the annual banquet and service award dinner, credit the cooks, waitstaff, the DJ, musicians, singers, entertainers and our sanitation and volunteer teams of people for their diligence and attentiveness to the details which make it so special. Shining the light on others, as many as you can recognize, builds up their esteem and affirms their value to you. This is true in families and churches as well. Whether it be a child setting or clearing a table and we parent giving them some recognition or church members who take on youth trips or vacation bible school. Any way we can give them that pat-on-the-back is a great tool to share the success.

Selah people' and friends write or print a list of those who hold support positions in your group or on your staff at your company. Write a sincere note of affirmation to some of those support staff members for all that they do and contribute to your team. Watch what God can do when we share the spotlight and do it knowing it is not about us but that it all about Him!

"Choose today to pass on some of the joy and celebration that should be shared by all and not just a few that may be higher up in position."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile Mount Olive, NC

June 21, 2009 ~ Well Done

What has God created you to do...do you know your purpose?

Today's Scripture:

After I had this vision from heaven, I obeyed it.

Acts 26:19

Paul, the writer of Acts, was successful because he fulfilled his purpose in life. He obeyed the vision that God had given to him. College students have long addressed the question of their purposes when choosing their majors or embarking on chosen carrier fields.

Even among middle aged adults, the search for purpose has driven many to career changes, lifestyle adjustments, and new avocations.

For myself personally I found my call to ministry so strong that nothing -not even my current profession as warehouse manager - could stand in God's way of his purpose for my life. Paul was able to claim success because he had been faithful to carry out the vision for his life.

The Encarta Dictionary gives three definitions for purpose. First, purpose is your reason for existence - the reason for which you were created by God. The second meaning of purpose is "a desired effect, goal, or intended outcome of something." Finally, purpose is described as "the desire or the resolve necessary to accomplish a goal."

When you understand that God created you on purpose for a purpose, you can realize the vision for your own life. Your purpose is the reason for your life from which you produce your goals. As you continually focus your goals toward your vision, you can accomplish your life vision just as Paul fulfilled his own purpose in life. Review your goals often to remind yourself of your mission in life. Your sense of purpose gives you the resolve to see your vision completed successfully.

Selah people' and friends to realize your purpose, write down the recurring ideas or dreams you have had for your life. Let you sense of fulfillment guide your next steps toward successfully completing your vision.

"When you reach the end of life and look back on what you have made your purpose will Christ say Well Done.?"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Cha-Ching!

If your happiness on the monetary rewards you will be let down...

Today's Scripture:

The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord.

Ruth 2:12

The waitress seemed quite frustrated that she was doing most of the work serving the large party seated at the tables shared by her coworker. Her fellow waitperson had a reputation for slacking off on his share of the labor while always demanding his half of the tip. Although the tip for service was quite generous, the waitress did not feel she was receiving her full reward for all her effort.

Often the hope of financial prosperity drives you to labor hard in the workplace, only to discover that you share the wealth with someone less industrious. A seller's real estate agent often splits his commission with the buyer's agent. Salespeople sometimes share their bonuses with their managers or associates. Business partners may receive equitable dividends regardless of their individual diligence and commitment to the success. Many professionals will never be paid their worth. After all, how can you put a value on saving lives, educating minds, or restoring families? Yet, firefighters, soldiers, teachers, and social workers do not earn high incomes as compared to other professionals.

If you seek to receive prosperity through only monetary rewards, you may be disappointed.

True prosperity is the receipt of God's rewards.

Sometimes God's blessings will come in the form of financial gain. However, God also recognizes you with intangible rewards like favor among others, a stellar reputation, a happy family, or good health. Allow God to choose your rewards, and you will have a prosperous life.

Selah people' and friends make a list of all the blessings in your life with which God has rewarded you lately. Especially remember to list the intangible rewards you have received.

"Take the time today to remember what is really valuable to your happiness and give praise to God how provides all things worth having."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

The Winning Question

Today with things like a GPS or Google all you need
to do is ask a good question to get an answer...

Today's Scripture:

Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, so that your joy will be the fullest possible joy.

John 16:24

That corner store looks familiar; maybe I passed it already. Yes, that is definitely the same store. I must be driving in circles! Where is the right road? I could of course stop and ask for directions...No, I'll just loop around once more; surely I'll find it...You wonder why you feel compelled to continue driving when you know you are lost. It is the same impulse that urges you to continue assembling your project without reading the directions. Could it be your own sense of certainty that you know the answers that forces your tenacity? Or is it just a matter of efficiency in trying to save time? Sometimes when you continue your search or labor on your own, you do end up lost or with extra pieces left, if you even accomplish the project assembly at all.

With modern innovations such as automated GPS navigation systems in our vehicles, you do not even have to stop at the corner store to ask for directions. With the press of the touch screen or voice activation, the promise of guidance can be accessed immediately.

You do not have to become frustrated while waiting for God's promises either.

You have immediate access to answers, guidance, or anything you need by simply calling out to God through prayer.

The Bible is a guidebook to every project you need to be assembled in your life. Read the instructions and ask for guidance to the promises that seem to be hiding in your life.

Selah people' and friends the Bible is full of promises for a successful life. Find a promise in the Bible that you want to receive from God. Pray and ask him to provide it for you.

"Trying speaking to God in and through prayer each day and each time you have a need...ask winning questions and God will give winning answers."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston via mobile ~ Lake Royale ...Bunn, NC

June 17, 2009 ~ When Plans Go Awry...

Can you worship God when things are not going well?

Today's Scripture:

You are worried and upset about many things. Only one thing is important.

Luke 10:41-42

Martha was exasperated. More than a dozen guests had arrived for her dinner party and she had a table to set, food to prepare, and dishes to clean. But her meal wasn't running according to plan. She was supposed to have help from her sister, Mary. But Mary was distracted and ignored her requests for help. When Martha had had enough of doing all the work alone, she finally went to the guest of honor himself, Jesus Christ. Since she couldn't get Mary to do her part. Martha enlisted his help. Jesus, however, did not respond as Martha anticipated. Instead, he gently admonished her. Mary had figured out the one thing that Martha needed to learn, which was to worship.

Worship may sound like an unusual response to problems. Worship alone may not necessarily make all your problems crumble to dust. However, worship is the most important point of your attention when facing problems.

When you focus on worshiping God, you realize the many things that worry and upset you become less important.

Worship refocuses you. It helps you to see problems from another perspective of eternal importance.

Like Martha, you well-planned event or project may not play out exactly as it was orchestrated. In the midst of your pan gone awry, be sure to stay focused on worship. When you concentrate on God more than the problem you are facing, it not only blesses God but builds your faith.

Selah people' and friends in stressful situations, refocus your attention on God. Ask him to provide you with wisdom and peace about the situation before you take corrective action.

"Allow God to take over your focus when things don't work out like you want. Turn to God first, before you hit bottom and He can get you going in the right direction."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

June 16th, 2009 ~ Divine To-Do List...

Prepare today for what needs to be done for God!

Today's scripture:

I glorified you on earth by completing down to the last detail what you assigned me to do.

John 17:4

I am reminded of an episode of Andy Griffith where Opie tried his best without success to explain how the best time to do anything is tomorrow. Andy the good father made it clear that when the "Father" put a task on you To-do you best put it at the top of your list an not put it off or some discipline will be coming. Each day's action list for us holds a full day of opportunity to accomplish many things. You may even have multiple lists for your day: meetings, errands, client or co-worker follow-up, family and church responsibilities, and so on. With so many activities to accomplish during your day, the lists can become overwhelming.

When you cannot see the trees for the forest, it is time for you to prioritize.

Establishing priorities will help you accomplish the most important things first, leaving the less-needed items till the end. To properly prioritize, first determine what is important and what is just urgent. Some things are both. Important things mus be addressed first. If you are not a morning person, or your schedule will not permit you to tackle the most important item at the beginning of your day, you can at least schedule it for later in the day and make it a "do not disturb" time period. Effectively organizing your daily tasks will give you a sense of accomplishment in your day.

Sometimes overlooked on the to-do list are the things that sustain you spiritually. You must know what God wants you to do with your day to truly be successful. Just like your other errands and tasks, you can schedule time for prayer, meditation, inspiration, and ministry during your day. God's items should always be assigned top priority on your daily action list.

Selah people' and friends make an action list of your most important jobs to do for God. Go ahead and put it down so tomorrow you will have a head start doing His work. Find a place in your daily schedule to place those items. Make sure you assign the highest priority to God.

"Brothers and sisters please do not put off God's tasks any longer...write them down and check them off. It is such a wonderful feeling of accomplishment and there is no telling whom you may touch when you dedicate yourself to "doing" His work."

Have a safe and Blessed day!

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile in rainy Mount Olive, NC

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Selah people' and friends,

Link to audio sermon ~ Selah Christian Church Disciples of Christ Four Oaks, NC

June 14, 2009


Hope each of you have a blessed week.

In Christ service,
Patrick

Dear God

Prayer can be like a call to a friend...

you can make it anytime and on-the-go!

Today's Scripture:

The Lord is close to everyone who prays to him, to all who truly pray to him.

Psalm 145:18

When people get to the end of their human capabilities of solving their problems, they often say, "Well, there is nothing left to do but pray." But prayer is not a last resort.

God is near to you as soon as you pray. He is awaiting your request for help.

He is eager to be the forerunner of your life. Prayer can be your first response to every situation. Prayer is simply a conversation with God.

Just as with a colleague, sometimes you enjoy having a special time of fellowship in a quiet setting where you can discuss important issues. But with peers, you do not always have to wait for an appointment to have a talk. You have a mutual understanding that you can make impromptu calls or text when you need to get advice or share excitement. For those quick conversations, you do not need a prearranged meeting. You can simply chat with your buddy on the cell phone while doing other things.

Your communication with God can be the same. Special moments of solitude and reverence may preferred when you more intimate time with God. But you can pray while you are holding on a phone call, driving to the store or an appointment, waiting a stop sign, or walking through the hallways a work. God does not expect or require an appointment. He is available for the important decisions, the small frustrations, and the celebratory announcements. He is near, listening, and ready to respond to your call...24/7/365!

Selah people' and friends practice multitasking with prayer...we do it with other things like work, ball practice, and other family activities. Consider using the normally wasted waiting time in lines and at stoplights. Be creative and find three new opportunities in you day to surprise God with an impromptu prayer. He tells us to pray without ceasing so perhaps today one of your new opportunities could be a breath prayer where on the inhale or exhale you just share praise to our most high God..."Thank you Jesus, help me Jesus, Praise God."

"Choose new ways today to take time out for God and invite him into being a part of your day-to-day battles and being a part of helping with a solution, instead of calling on him at the end of the day seeking refreshment from going through the struggles alone."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ via mobile

Daily Pleasantries ~ June 13th, 2009

Do share words of hope and encouragement with those around you?

Today's Scripture:

Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my strength and my redeemer.

Psalm 19:14

You talk all day long. You talk to coworkers, customers; maybe you even mumble to yourself at times. Estimations state that an average person speaks between 125 and 250 words per minute - that is quite a few words - that is quite a few words exchanging in a single conversation. With so much communication transpiring, it is important to realize the impact of words. Your words are powerful tools to use for encouragement to others and honor to God.

Using your words cautiously may not be so easy, nor may you consider it to be the natural response, especially in difficult conversations. However, you should censor your words before they are spoken. You could see your mouth as the filter for your words. Just as a water purifier filters out unhealthy substances, your mouth can catch the toxic material of your words and dispense only the healthy portions.

You can use conversation that is good for the encouragement necessary for others to thrive in their responsibilities.

Touch the lives of those around you with carefully chosen words.

As you carefully choose your words with others, you will honor God by your positive display of encouragement. Sometimes a person's whole attitude can change just because a kind remark or heartfelt compliment was given to him. Sharing even simple comments or how beautiful the day is or how lovely someone looks can bring glory to God and brighten some one's day.

Selah people' and friends check your communication filter. Dispense pure words of hope and affirmation by integrating sincere compliments and genuine appreciation in your conversations with your family, friends, coworkers and clients.

"What can you say to others today that will allow the Jesus in you to meet the Jesus in them?"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Spinning Wheels ~ June 11th, 2009

Are the tools in your life keeping you on task or off task?

Stop wasting your time and spinning your wheels...

Today's Scripture:

The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, but those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.

Proverbs 21:5

Just because you have a PDA, Smart phone or an organizer, or desk calendar does not mean that you are a planner. Often, people use schedules to manage their chaos. A planner does not just go from appointment to appointment because they are on his calendar. Instead, the calendar is a tool to manage his or her goals and plans. You may remember your grandmother telling you that haste makes waste. Without taking the time to plan your day, week, or even life, you hurriedly use up your time with accomplishing the important things that bring success and you overlook the daily joys and miracles because your too "busy" to embrace them.

Planning my friends begins with a vision of your future. Almost seven years ago I too was checking off appointments and just going from hour to hour putting out fires. People ask how I am able to do what I do in a day, week or month? I answer only by God's grace and by allowing him to direct my goals. You can develop financial, social, professional, and spiritual goals. Once you have a goal in mind, you plan accordingly to achieve it. For example, if you want to improve your financial situation, you determine your goal. Then you determine what steps you will take to attain that financial goal. You may want to cut your spending or increase your income with a second job. Then you have a guide, or plan, to follow and keep you progressing toward your goal of attaining the financial status you desire.

Without some type of plan, you may wander haphazardly wasting effort and time.

A plan can give you direction, focus, and accountability to remain diligent in your endeavors.

My good friend and former boss and mentor Rev Ken Powell had a sign on his desk when I started working at the pickle company that read "Plan what you do & do what you plan". Avoid spinning your wheels. Maintain control of your schedule; do not let it control you. We have so many tools and gadgets to assist us today so please be a good steward of your time as well as your money, remember it all comes as a gift from God.

Selah people' and friends review your calendar each day. Make sure that you have evidence of your goals accounted for in your schedule. Plan for work, rest and relationships, make time for God and your family...right it down, key it in or record it and leave yourself a voicemail. Do whatever it takes to plan out your future. If you do not have these listed, schedule time into your day as appointments to develop your goals. Start today for we are not promised tomorrow.

"Choose today to have big vision and to acknowledge it is not about you but it is ll about Christ using each of us to accomplish His work."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile Mount Olive, NC

Church Leaders Intelligence 6-10-2009

Selah people' and friends,

Click link below for this issue of the Church Leaders Intelligence report. A great tool that brings together news and current events that effects Christians and those in our community.

Have a Blessed day!

Rev Patrick Muston, pastor
Selah Christian Church - Four Oaks, NC

Link ot Christian Leaders Intelligence 6-10-2009:
http://trackit.outreach.com/read/archive?id=4912&e=patrickmuston@msn.com&x=bd9a25c4

Who's the Fairest of Them All?

Who is the fairest of them all...when you look in the
mirror what do you see looking back?

Today's Scripture:

Those who hear God's teaching and do nothing are like people who look at themselves in a mirror. They see their faces and then go away and quickly forget what they looked like. But the truly happy people are those who carefully study God's perfect law that makes people free, and they continue to study it.

James 1:23-25

Quite a bit of attention is given to professional development. Continuous improvement in skills. Procedures, and professionalism is emphasized in most organizations. Personal growth is sometimes assumed as part of vocational training, but personal growth is a field of its own. Identifying a technical skill to learn or improve may be easier than selecting a personal trait to develop. But you can target areas for self-improvement just as you can areas for professional growth.

One way to decide in what areas you want to improve is to study the Scripture. The Bible provides many sources of discovery, such as the proverbs about temperament and communication or beatitudes regarding attitudes. For example, if you study the fruit of the Spirit, which includes love, joy, peace, and patience, among others, you might find that you could improve in the area of patience. Once you have progressed well in patience, you can move to one of the other areas listed.

"The Bible is full of ideas to examine for your potential life lessons."

Once you target an area in which you want to grow, you simply make a plan. You might plan to learn some stress relievers or rehearse patience by choosing the longest line at the grocery store just for the practice. As is in any professional area, you will find that you can make great strides in your personal growth by taking a sober look at your reflection in the mirror.

Selah people' and friends target an area of personal growth to work on. Write down your goals and steps for improvement. Put your plan to work today by taking the first step.

"Once you think you've made it take that long hard look and the mirror and see if you can see Christ showing through that veil of flesh."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Gotta Make it...

I think I can, I think I can...God knows I can through persistence!

Today's Scripture:

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Philippians 4:13

The Little Engine That Could is a story of persistence. The Little Engine was determined to make it to his destination. I so connect with the Little Engine, although he ran across challenges, obstacles, and discouragement, he did not stop. He may have huffed his way to success as he chanted to himself that he could make it, but he did make it in the end. Sometimes you may feel like giving up or giving in. You may feel as if you are beating your head against the wall, that you are up against a brick wall, or maybe even that you are just exhausted. In whatever jargon you express it, you feel like quitting.

Persist. You can do it. You may have to sing, "gotta make it" or "I can do all things"or "when your hardest hit, you must not quit" along the way, but you can do it. What you cannot do is persist in your own strength.

Philippians clearly explains that your strength must come through Christ. He is the One who can enable and empower you to do all things.

Keep moving forward even if you see others running out of steam or derailing. Sometimes the journey may be a steady, challenging incline or a full-speed, frightening descent, but you can enjoy the thrill of the ride. Rely on Christ for your strength, and you will make it to your destination.

Selah people' and friends break your large project into smaller, more feasible benchmarks. Think of each mark as a rest stop to refuel with energy and passion. At each rest stop, ask God to join you on the journey.

"Remember today where your true strength comes from and when you do all things are possible."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

The Grand Finale

God has a plan for all your pieces...how will they come together?

Today's Scripture:

God began doing a good work in you, and I am sure he will continue it until it is finished when Jesus Christ comes again.

Philippians 1:6

An evangelist tells of a time when she was traveling in the Midwest preaching in small churches. She drove through miles and miles of farmland. The scenery of corn, wheat, and bean fields became boring, and she became weary of the view. It seemed to be just a long trip of the same relentless sights over and over. But when she departed by plane and her view lifted her to new heights, the dullness was replaced by a picturesque weave of colors and depth that was beautiful.

When you are working in the routine of your job and relationships, you cannot see the finished product. Sometimes what appear to you as redundant, maybe even meaningless tasks can actually be part of God's grand plan of you. A quilter can take remnants of fine linen and mix them with scraps of common cloth to create a beautiful patchwork of comfort and warmth. God can do the same with the events of your life.

God can mix your most heroic successes with your most humbling failures and make a significant ministry out of them.

You have to persevere long enough to view the field from the sky and see the rags turned into the quilt to understand God's plan. You can trust that he had a plan for your life when he created you. If you are willing to be tenacious enough to make it to the end with him, he will complete his purpose for you.

Selah people' and friends write your life mission or purpose in a ten-word statement. Read your mission statement at the beginning and ending of each day as a reminder of your purpose in life. Today we celebrated our 2009 Graduates and what has helped them accomplish but more importantly what God has awaiting for there futures.

"What have you been through so far in your life? How do your rags fit together? What will be your Grand Finale? Either in your failure or success God can make that into a part of the disciple he wants you to be.Are you ready for that next step?"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Purposeful Peace

How do you encourage those around you?

Today's Scripture:

Those who plan peace have joy.

Proverbs 12:20

You have the power to set others up for greatness. When friends and coworkers share their aspirations with you, your words and actions regarding their dreams can be a conduit of inspiration. In a competitive world in which candidates are pitted-against one another to receive promotions, people can become envious. Envy causes deceit and conceit toward others. But when you are self-confident and rely on God for all your promotions, you do not have to be intimidated by the success of others. You then can just encourage others and help them succeed, and at the same time be a winner yourself.

When you choose to take actions of peace, you build others up. You can help others achieve their dreams by equipping them with methods and motivation that will lead to success. If colleagues share a new product, idea, new ministry opportunity or new service project with you, help them brainstorm through the possible design and promotion ideas without expecting a return on your efforts.

The knowledge that you had a part in the achievement and the success of others is itself a joyful reward.

Find ways to motivate your personal and professional peers. Be confident enough to let others use your expertise to achieve their own goals. Find enjoyment in the success of others by planning for their peace.

Selah people' and friends ask a colleague to share his or her aspirations with you. Then ask how you can be supportive in achieving that goal. Be sure to encourage and empower your colleague along the way to success.

"Remember today my friends that we do not need to step on others or push them down to lift yourself up. God encourages us to work together because it takes the efforts of many to make impossible feats possible. May you find that Purposeful Peace today."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston Via mobile ~Mount Olive, NC

Burning Desire

Check your fire today...do you need to reignite the burning desire God put in you?

Today's Scripture:

I remind you to keep using the gift God gave you...let it grow, as a small flame grows into a fire.

2 Timothy 1:6

Good Boy Scouts know how to start fires. Although there are reports of using such strange items as a soda can or a chocolate bar, there are several common elements required to ignite any fire. You need something to create a spark, material to use as tinder to turn the spark into a flame, and kindling to generate a fire from the initial flame.

Igniting passion in yourself and others is much the same as starting a fire. God gave you what you need for the spark. He created you with the gifts found in your talents, skills, and abilities. Your responsibility is to take that spark and turn it into a flame. You can find the tinder of opportunities for using your gifts all around you. But using your gifts once in a lifetime or once in a while is not enough to maintain a fire. The flame must be continually kindled to keep the fire going.

The more you put your gifts to work, the more you feed the flame within you.

Passion is that fire within. It is that burning desire to make a difference in the world around you. Passion can be more than a temporary spark or excitement. As you fan the flame of the God-given spark within you, you can maintain zeal to achieve great accomplishments in life.

Selah people' and friends check your fire. Does it need a little kindling to energize it? If so, put one of your gifts to work in your church, work or community service project and recapture your enthusiasm.

"Grab someone and shake their hand, give them a hug and let them know that God loves them. Don't let your fire burn out but instead reignite your passion for doing God's work."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ via mobile Mount Olive, NC

Saddle Up...

"Come, let us go." With God's help we too can be opportunistic!

Today's Scripture:

Come, let us go.

1 Samuel 14:1

Jonathan was the king's son. Like the other men in the army, he was to get his directions for battle from the king. But the king was afraid and so was his army. They all sat down under a pomegranate tree to consider their options for fighting the Philistines, who outnumbered them. But Jonathan had a notion. He and his assistant sneaked away from camp to survey the situation. He asked for God's direction in helping them identify a good opportunity to attack the enemy. When the moment arrived, Jonathan responded, "Come, let us go."

Jonathan was optimistic and opportunistic. He believed that with God's help, he could make a difference in the battle. He had a victor's attitude. But he did not react impulsively. He examined his situation and looked for the right opportunity. Then he seized the moment to succeed. God did help them win the battle. In fact, once his father the king saw the battle was under way, he led the troops to help fight.

You can take advantage of opportunities that others do not even see.

When you look at the glass of water and see it as half empty, view it as an opportunity to add fresh water to the mix. If God can enable two young men to battle an army of thousands and win, he can help you and I accomplish incredible feats in leadership.

Selah people' and friends target an opportunity that has lain dormant. Pray for God to show you creative ways to take full advantage of its possibilities. Then take a step of action and implement one of the strategies. Don't put it off like Jonathan when the moment arrives "Saddle up" and let's ride...Yee-Haw!!!

"Choose to start taking better advantage of the wonderful opportunities God reveals to you."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Automatic Doors

God gives us a door ready to open...

Today's Scripture:

I know your works. See, I have set before you an open door, and no one can shut it; for you have a little strength, have kept My word, and have not denied My name.

Revelation 3:8

Imagine that you have just completed conducting a daylong seminar. You have packed your materials, loaded your laptop & projector, stacked you briefcases, and are scurrying out to catch the cab you've called that has arrived. You prepare to leave the building, holding one briefcase in hand and another under your arm, while pulling a cart with the other hand. As you arrive at the door you stop. How am I going to push this door open without dropping everything? You groan, finding no one to help you. How exhausting to manage your load and struggle to get the door open too. Those are the times you hope for an automatic door - one that will just fly open as you hope for an automatic door - one that will just fly open as you move toward it, allowing you to exit with ease.

Now imagine that in the midst of your struggle God has set before you an automatic door. As you move toward it, the door just flies open with no effort from you. Why would he do that for you? He says that he will do it because he knows that you have little strength, and yet have obeyed his word and not denied his name.

Continue to imagine. What struggle leaves you with only a little strength? It is important to remember that you do not have the power to open some doors of opportunity; but God does.

When you honor God by following his ways, he honors you by sharing his power, which opens doors with an automatic ease in ways you cannot.


Selah people' and friends acknowledge God's name as the source of strength in your life. Wait for the door to open automatically, divinely, using his strength instead of your own to move forward.

"May we remember today that as we stand at the door Christ is ready and able to open up opportunities to a wonderful future, if only we will allow Him to do so."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile: Mount Olive, NC

Impressing the Boss

Often we struggle for approval from our boss and others...
Problem with this is that it is just temporary and never lasts!

Today's Scripture:

In all the work you are doing, work the best you can. Work as if you were doing it for the Lord, not for people.

Colossians 3:23

It has been said that you can please some of the people some of the time, but you can never please all of the people all the time. Trying to do so will only bring you frustration and discouragement because you are striving to achieve the impossible.

Approval from other people is not enough to motivate you to continued success. Man's approval is not consistent. You may please Jim today, but he may disagree with your next decision. Such temporary gratification is fleeting. Also, approval from people is not significant eternally. While he was on earth, Jesus was less concerned about whether people liked him than he was about fulfilling his purpose. You cannot measure your success based on whether others are pleased by your decisions. You cannot even rely on how well you impress your boss.

Instead, gauge your success by how well you complete the goals that God has inspired in you. Your motivation must be intrinsic and purposeful if it is to be sustaining.

Bill Cosby once stated, " I do not know the formula for success, but the way to failure is to try and please everyone." Your audience is not the crowd around you. Your most important audience is God. If you seek to please Him in all that you do, he will persuade the onlookers and convince them of your success. Find your motivation through satisfying God.

Selah people' and friends in the next tough decision that brings concern of what people will think about you, weigh the value of their opinions carefully. Then ask yourself if God will be pleased with you too.

"May we turn our focus today off of what everyone else wants us to do and instead focus on what will please God. He will work out the rest!"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile: Mount Olive, NC

Oops!!!

photo credit to: despair, inc via www.despair.com

Sometimes our mistakes are part of a bigger plan beyond just us!

Today's Scripture:

Happy is the person whose sins are forgiven, whose wrongs are pardoned.

Psalm 32:1

Mistakes are part of life. Some are so small that consequences are unrecognized by others. Unfortunately, other mistakes are of grand proportion, affecting many other people.

But sometimes you can be surprised to find that a mistake is a blessing in disguise.

The only way to guarantee no mistakes are made is to prohibit trying to accomplish anything. Even though no one likes to make a mistake, this is not a viable solution. Instead, controlling your reaction to your own mistakes and those of others can revolutionize your organizational environment. Whey you accept mistakes as a part of innovation, you allow others to liberate their creativity. In a risk-taking atmosphere, people are not afraid to try new discoveries, inventions, and ideas. Understanding that mistakes are not only tolerated but embraced can ease your stress and compel others' originality.

Without someone appreciating the value in mistakes, you would not have been able to ever use sticky notes, eat chocolate chip cookies, or drink sodas. All these products were actually mistakes. Post-it note adhesive was slated to be a tape adhesive; chocolate-chip cookies were supposed to be chocolate cookies, but the chocolate didn't melt; and Coca-Cola first failed as medicine. But each inventor saw the potential of another use for his or her product. Some of them did not discover the value of their product for years. You cannot mistake-proof your life, church or organization, but you can fail-proof them by allowing yourself or your team to become creative innovators through risk taking without fear of reproof.

Selah people' and friends think of a mistake that you have made recently. Stretch your imagination to think of a creative or innovative way to recycle the idea, message, process or product into a new creation. Just as Christ and take sinners like us and use us to do His work so too can He help us take our mistakes and turn them into victories.

"Seize the opportunity that comes your way today in the form of your failures. Remember God is in control and we must have faith that we can do all things through Him."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile: Westbrook Park Mount Olive, NC

Selah Choir & Sermon link from May 31, 2009

Hope this finds each of starting off a wonderful new week. May God Bless you and use you to be a "sermon in shoes" walking and talking the message that Christ has for you to share with all his people you meet outside the four walls of the church.



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Peace be with you,
Rev Patrick Muston ~ Selah Christian Church Disciples of Christ