Saturday, April 18, 2009

Hugs and Handshakes

In Martial Arts we learn of honor and respect, how is it
that these who compete can shake hands, battle each other
hug and shake hands when the competition is over? Why
do we have trouble being able to hug and shake hands with
those whom we care about or don't even know who need it?

Today's Scripture:

By helping each other with your troubles, you truly obey the law of Christ. Galatians 6:2

Technology is great. It offers quick transfer of information, faster production processes, and immediate access to resources. However, reliance on technology has also brought with it dissociation from coworkers and customers. Technology lacks the human factor. For example, many school systems and large corporations now use automated services to receive call-ins from sick staff members. Although the system relieves the need for staff and is more efficient in handling the calls, there is no empathy expressed to the sick staff member.

With the luxury of email, voice mail, blackberry and multifunction cell phones, and fax machines, workers can go for hours, even day, with no real contact with coworkers, customers, or even their bosses. But people still have the need for a sense of belonging and purpose that comes through human touch and conversation. So, what are you to do as a leader? Where is the balance? I personally seek ways as a pastor, husband, father and friend to use the technology I have available to reach out to others through calls, emails, texts and yes even this blog as a means to share a thought and idea with people close to me, even if they are far away from me. Helping others with their troubles is a prime opportunity not only to please God but also to meet people's needs.

Take advantage of the opportunity to connect with others. The power of a handshake,hug or pat on the back can bring Hope to a discouraged member, friend or staff member. Although an e-mail note or e-card of encouragement is better than no comment or contact at all, it still is not as powerful as a personal conversation. Have a face-to-face encounter when expressing encouragement. Show empathy with a personal touch. Congratulate successes. Make eye contact to connect with others through your day and week. These actions create a sense of belonging and caring in a sometimes cold and isolated world.

Selah people' and friends slow down. Notice people's expressions. Does someone seem extraordinarily cheerful? Ask them why. Do you notice some one's hurried and frazzled demeanor? Stop and extend a hand or a hug. You could make another person's day.

"Peace be yours as you choose today to shake that hand, share that hug or just look someone in the eye and tell them just how much our God loves them."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ via mobile at Wayne Orthopaedics Goldsboro, NC