Expect the Unexpected

Sometimes the unexpected is just God at work...

Today's Scripture:

God does wonders that cannot be understood; he does so many miracles they cannot be counted.

Job 5:9

Miracles and wonders prevail throughout the Bible. Jesus turned water into wine when they ran out at a wedding. When a hungry crowd was without food, he multiplied a small portion of fish and bread to feed them all. When people were running for their lives and needed an escape route, God parted the waters of the sea so that they could cross dry ground. But those were Bibles stories.

It is possible that God still does phenomenal wonders today?

You may have heard about modern-day miracles too. A missionary tells of a time when his car ran out of gas in a dangerous jungle. Since a puddle was nearby, he filled the tank with water, believing that God could make it work. The shares that the car arrived safely at its destination. Maybe that is too unbelievable. But certainly you have heard of the lost and alone young boy who was found alive and in good health after a four-day search. Such a remarkable survival in the Utah wilderness was against all odds. Such coincidences can surely be considered more than simple fate or chance.

When you have faith, you can expect the unexpected. The Bible is not temporary; it is eternal. Just as Job explained the wondrous miracle-working power of God, you can expect it to happen today. When you begin looking for them, you will see the miracles around you. Just traveling toward Smithfield from our home my family spotted a rainbow which always reminds me of a promise made by God in the Bible, but also reminds me that he is just as real and with us today.

Selah people' and friends note at least one spectacular thing that has happened to you this week. Instead of calling it fate, give the credit to God for his divine intervention by sharing it with others. I will share with you the title of our message for our upcoming Graduation Sunday was one of those happy little accidents or better explained as God at work. Sue Hill stopped me in the church office following worship to see if I had thought of the title for our message at that moment we looked to the bookshelf and sure enough staring back us was book titled "You Can If You Think You Can". I will share this message and gift from God that came in an unexpected way next Sunday.

"Take time out to expect the unexpected when you cling to and share your faith in Christ."


Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Help!

When you are in need remember God is there watching over you!

Today's Scripture:

Our high priest is able to understand our weaknesses. When he lived on earth, he was tempted in every way that we are, but he did not sin. Let us, then, feel very sure that we can come before God's throne where there is grace. There we can receive mercy and grace to help us when we need it.

Hebrews 4:15-16

Leadership does not come with a handbook. Of course there are theories, plans, and suggestions by many so called experts, but when it comes down to it, you and I have to think on our feet. Unfortunately, in leadership every person who attempts it is bound to make mistakes at some point. If you are bold and of strong faith you may make many along your journey from which we can learn and grow.

Admitting faults and weaknesses is humbling for most people. Sometimes you do not even reach out to others for help because it would require an admission of your inadequacy. But be encouraged.

When no one else can console you or understand your pain, God can.

Because Jesus Christ lived a sinless life, it is often forgotten that he was tempted to sin, challenged in his faith, just as you and I are daily, and he too suffered physical pain. But as you experience in your relationships with others, he also endured the very things that you face in life.

When you need help because you have made a mistake, seek assistance from God. Although your blunder may reap undesirable consequences, you can find relief in God. He offers mercy and grace. When you are simply discouraged or doubtful, you can be assured that his grace is not earned but is a gift awaiting you when you need it. Your responsibility is to simply ask God for help. He will answer.

Selah people' and friends make a list of challenges or inadequacies with which you need help right now. Prayerfully and specifically request that God help you with each situation.

"Remember Christ is a comfort in a time of trouble. He like a Lifeguard stands watch and even when you have forgotten it...He is always watching and waiting ready to dive in and save you in your time of need."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Multiply Your Effort

Today's Scripture:

You should teach people whom you can trust the things you and many others have heard me say. Then they will be able to teach others.

2 Timothy 2:2

My Football Coach Jim Sheehan

You endeavor to surround yourself with people who are emerging leaders. But knowing when leaders in training are ready to lead for themselves can be uncertain. The Bible explains that faithfulness and capability are two qualities that you should look for in future leaders.

As head coach of a football team you place players in positions where they would have the most optimal effect for the team. Let's say there is one player one your team that is faithful to practice. He runs each wind sprint, lap and eye opener drill with all he has because of his drive to be the best. He is faithful to the weight room to build his strength because his desire is to be the nose guard on the defensive line crushing running backs and crushing quarterbacks. The problem is that he weighs 138 pounds instead of the needed 280 pounds. He would not be a good fit for that position not for lack of will or determination but perhaps he is just not able, even though he is faithful. Meanwhile, there is another player who can throw the ball a country mile. He is lean and quick and certainly able to be the quarterback based on physical skills. But he regularly arrives late or skips practice all together and doesn't fully participate. He is able, but he is not faithful. Both of these players could develop into vital team members if they were coached to strengthen their weaknesses.

I had some really good coaches like Jim Sheehan and Earl Taylor, that did a great job of getting the most out of us and showing us how to not just be members of the team but leaders or as my Coach Charlie Gill would call us "Rabbits" as we lead out in front pushing our teammates running laps.


Your job is to help develop the missing quotient through mentoring of the leaders in training.

be it on your team, in your church or business. By teaching them to be both faithful and able, you will develop their individual leadership capabilities as well as their collective effectiveness for your team.

Selah people' and friends assess those around you with leadership potential. Help them develop their faithfulness or capability to become successful leaders by mentoring them as their leadership coach.

"Please know that even as a leader we can't do it all alone...we must develop our brothers and sisters and pass on the gift of leadership. Remember together we can all achieve more for Christ."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Church Leaders Intelligence 5-27-2009

Some words of inspiration and ideas from today's headlines. I was once told that a minister should preach with a Bible in one hand and the newspaper in the other. Christ uses parables that speak to his people in ways that they can understand. As leaders in the church we must be up-to-date on what is happening in our world so we too can speak intelligently to others so that they can understand what God's word shares about how to handle our current events.

May you each have a blessed week.

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Saving Face

When your in the middle of something and are interrupted
take time out where you are to stop, look and listen.

Today's Scripture:

He who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him.

Proverbs 18:13

Bosses tell people what to do, but leaders guide people to action. Decision making, intuition, and foresight are all parts of effective leadership. But sometimes eagerness to make quick decisions or bring resolution can cause you to act impulsively or get too bossy. You should try to balance decisiveness with insight to prevent becoming a bossy boss.

The key to listening is to be attentive in the conversation. You might be able to multitask, but you probably cannot multi focus. If you are truly listening, you must be focused on the conversation. Sometimes people listen in order to respond. However, you need to listen to understand. Then you can respond effectively. Listening to the mater at hand only gives you information that you need, it also allows you to understand underlying issues that go beyond the superficial facts.

You can prevent an embarrassing moment for yourself or others by listening to all the facts as well as the feelings before responding. Then you can offer well-thought-out answers and effective decisions.

Give God room to speak to you while you are listening.

He will give yo hidden insight that others cannot provide. If you react too quickly, you may not hear the treasure of God's words speaking to you. With effective listening, the people around you will appreciate your attentiveness and wisdom while you gain understanding.

Selah people' and friends stop, look and listen when someone interrupts you for advice or answers. Stop what you are doing. Look him or her in the eyes. Listen to what they are saying. Then, respond intelligently and with true compassion.

"Begin today giving of yourself be it time or attention so that others know that you really care. You may be the only Jesus people ever have the opportunity to meet."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Rearview Mirror

When you chose to follow Christ and he calls you to lead others.

Check behind you often to be sure they are still following you!

Today's Scripture:

The mark of a good leader is loyal followers; leadership is nothing without following.

Proverbs 14:28

If you were going to take a caravan of travelers to an out-of-state destination, much like our annual trip with the youth, you would have to make some plans ahead of time. You would make sure that everyone driving knew the destination. Of course you would provide clear directions, maybe a map, a call list with every one's cellphone numbers, even an itinerary for traveling. Then, you would engage your gears and embark on your journey. But your responsibility does not end when the cars or vans start moving. A leader that drives with a front view only can see clearly where he is headed.

But if a leader doesn't check the rear view mirror, he doesn't know when he has lost his caravan.

Sometimes in the eagerness of leadership you can take off at warp speed with a new idea or project and even in catching a wave of the Holy Spirit moving you in an uncharted direction. You quickly follow the steps of casting the vision by describing where you are headed and what the goals of the mission are. Then you communicate the vision to all the affected parties. You hold meetings or planning sessions, send notices, and talk it up until everyone understands the plan. But you must also keep the vision in front of the people. Once your project or mission is under way, continue to check that everyone is headed in the right direction, and continue to stir the enthusiasm for the project.

Check behind you once in a while, or you will not know if people are still following you. By keeping an eye on the rear view, you can detect if people need rest stops, coffee breaks, or assistance in accomplishing God's vision for us.

Selah people' and friends choose a current team, family or church project that you are planning. Establish predetermined checkpoints or goals in the project timeline to see if you need to pause for refreshment or redirection. Maybe just that pause to contemplate, ponder or reflect what is already behind us before we move ahead much like the name of our church was originally intended in the Psalms..."Selah".

"God's wisdom be yours and keep an occasional eye watching your flock in the rear view mirror to make sure they have not gone astray and that together we all can make it to our ultimate and intended destination."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Memorial Day ~ 2009

Freedom comes with a price...God Bless those who paid that price just as Christ paid for our salvation. May we never forget what these men and women have done for us.

Rev Patrick Muston, pastor
Selah Christian Church Disciples of Christ

http://selahchurch.com/

Solid Ground

Just hating wrongdoing is not enough...

Today's Scripture:

Good leaders abhor wrongdoing of all kinds; sound leadership has a moral foundation.
Proverbs 16:12

At times, you may use power and politics to accomplish your goals. Often you have to turn a losing battle into a win-win scenario. Sometimes you even have to acquiesce to decisions with which you disagree, or compromise on an issue about which you have strong convictions. In other words, you confront ethical dilemmas. To be sure that your behavior is regarded as ethical, it is helpful to consider certain accepted criteria for ethical practice.

Ethical decisions take into consideration the greater good. Consider which result will bring you closer to seeing the optimal satisfaction of all people involved in the organization. Although you may seldom be able to please everyone, considering the best decision for the whole group will meet the needs of the majority. Free speech, free consent, freedom of conscience, privacy, and due process are all rights that need to be considered for the individuals affected. Your behavior should respect the rules of justice by treating everyone equitably and fairly. And finally, your decisions should be scripturally guided. Be careful to distinguish between your own personal convictions, denominational doctrines, and scriptural principles.

Hating wrongdoing is not enough. Having a moral foundation for your leadership is vital. Justice is proved through your actions. Although you may not always be able to treat everyone equally, strive to treat everyone justly. By applying the criteria for ethical behavior, you will build a more solid ground for your platform for leadership.

Selah people' and friends the next time you find yourself in an ethical dilemma, give yourself this acid test: Are your actions for the greater good? Are you respecting individuals? Is this fair? Is this scripturally sound?

"Choose this day to ground yourself and be ready to serve the greater good."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Yee-haw and Giddy up!!!

Do you just let out a celebration shout!!!

Today's Scripture:

Give me back the joy of your salvation. Keep me strong by giving me a willing spirit.

Psalm 51:12

Some days are just difficult. I have had a tough couple of days which built into a migraine headache and yesterday I felt a little defeated. I literally went to prayer closet about 5:30pm to lay down and pray. Perhaps in your own life and walk with our Lord you've gone through days like this. Try as you might, you just cannot get ahead in your duties and your to-do list. You may try to enlist others to help, but find them unavailable or disinterested in you or your trouble. In the midst of such challenges, your day can become mundane and weaken you both physically and mentally to the point of surrender. At those times, you need to regain your strength by cultivating a willing spirit.

Last night as I read a book about cowboys on the cattle trail to my son Luke it brought back memories of the old western movies, where the cowboys would often rally up excitement by swinging their hats in the air and shouting a boisterous "Yee-haw" and "Giddy up" just before they headed out on the trail. Even if you do not have your own posse to rouse, you too can motivate yourself with a declaration of enthusiasm. I can remember in my youth surfing when the hurricanes were coming in and you went to take a drop down a huge face, it felt like standing on top of a basketball rim and trying to drop too the floor.

It often would help to make a simple shout of celebration to pump up your passion and renew your spirit even on a challenging day or activity.

Celebration is a catalyst to regaining your joy as Joel Osteen refers to it. You can reclaim your strength by calling out to God and asking him for joy. Ask him to show you creative ways to rejoice in life. You can celebrate on a difficult day by throwing yourself a personal party at your coffee break. Celebrate the goodness of God by sharing how he has blessed you in a quick conversation or email with a friend. Teh more willing your spirit is to rejoice, the more strength and joy you will find in each day. You know those folks who cling to all things negative and yes that too can be contagious if you allow it. Don't!

Selah people' and friends create a happy folder or bulletin board that contains notes, cards, scriptures or photos that you have received that really make you smile and feel good. A brief review of the folder can start you on a joyful journey.

"That is my prayer for each of you reading this blog today that you will join me in shouting "Yee-haw" as we move ahead today with joy in our hearts and smiles on our faces. If you are not feeling it cling to God who can take you to that joyful place."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile Westbrook Park - Mount Olive, NC

At the Core of the Leader

What are the principles that represent your core?

Today's Scripture:


Mercy and truth preserve the king, and by loving kindness he upholds his throne.

Proverbs 20:28

Most leaders agree that there is no one formula to successfully lead others. Leadership is situational because of so many contributing factors that must be calculated into the formula. Because different situations require varying methods, approaches, and perspectives, you must maintain a few nonnegotiable principles on which to base your leadership actions. Those principles become the core values of your decisions, processes, and influence.


Integrity is displayed when your actions align with your espoused core values.



It has been said that if you are not willing to stand for something, then you are likely to fall for anything. Your core values are what you stand for when your challenged or tempted to compromise. Mercy, truth, and loving kindness are a great leader's sustaining core values. Other values that great leaders may embrace are honesty, compassion, servant hood, excellence, courage, and respect.




Values are the backbone that holds you upright with integrity. You can discover your core values by reflecting on the qualities that you would most want to be used to describe you by those who know you well. Also, examine those intangible characteristics that you would be absolutely unwilling to compromise in any situation. Having a personal values statement can help you face challenging situations that do not have one right answer. I see this daily in the business world and being a christian trying to live a life for God. An example of how this works... if your core values are courage, compassion, and humor, your value statement might be, "I will face challenges with courage, treat others with compassion, and embrace every day with humor."


Selah people' and friends try to meditate on those character traits that are most important to you. As values surface, select three to five of them and incorporate them into your own personal value statement.


"Take time out today to face the things that challenge you with a renewed strength knowing that God gives you all that you need to do His will."


Your pastor,


Rev Patrick Muston

No Status Quo...

Don't look at complaints as a problem

but as an opportunity to make things better!

Today's Scripture:

Wise men and women are always learning, always listening for fresh insights.

Proverbs 18:15

Have you ever wondered how household products can seemingly be ever-new and improved? It is as if they are constantly adding new fragrances, uses, and features to products that have been around for years. We do this in food items at the pickle company as well. If the product itself has not changed, then the packaging is at least redesigned frequently. The idea of something being new and fresh is appealing to most people. It intrigues and compels people to try it out, whether it is a product, a theme park ride, or a new menu or item at a favorite restaurant.

Wise leaders are always seeking new ideas and innovations. You can find them all around if you are curious enough. Focus groups are often used to test new products, from detergent to toys. But you can use focus groups in many other leadership situations, too. For instance, if you are ready to revamp a policy at work, call together a focus group to discuss a better way of doing it. You can include a variety of stakeholders, from leadership representatives to end users. The collective creative pool may reveal more than you could on your own.

Often just listening to people's opinions in general conversation can spark new ideas for you. If you are open-minded and willing to probe for insight, you can find new ideas that raise the standard beyond average.

Many times innovations are born out of complaints or problems and the desire to do well.

Selah people' and friends choose a complaint that you hear often. Think of several creative ways to solve the problem. You will challenge your creative thinking, and you may find an innovation.

"Our challenge today is to not stick with being content and predictable when people question what we say or do, but instead to embrace their words as a chance to shift things up and not only improve who we are but become more of what God wants us to be. Don't shoot the messenger that God sends."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston (Via mobile ~ Mount Olive, NC)

Living Beyond Yourself

You have influence over others by what you say and do...

Today's Scripture:

I, also, try to please everybody in every way. I am not trying to do what is good for me but what is good for most people so they can be saved.

1 Corinthians 10:33

Influence is the power you have to affect other people;s thinking or actions by your words and example. You do not have to be a top-level leader to have influence. Everyone has influence. Teachers influence their students and coworkers, pastors persuade congregants, even children affect their younger siblings' behavior.

Influence can be positive or negative.

Like the Corinthians were encouraged to do, be aware of you influence and use it for the greater good rather than personal gain. Whey you realize your impact on others and consider that impact in your lifestyle, you become less self-serving because you are more outwardly focused. Living beyond yourself means that you concern yourself with the needs of others. Although you do not seek their approval, you at least consider the effect your behavior will have on them. Today, as a pastor I carry this as part of the yoke each minister called must take for his or her code of ethics. As a father to my children I too must consider how my actions carry over to theirs...you can't say "do as I say not as I do". In every area of your life like it our not our influence good or bad touches others. As you base your own decisions and actions on building up other people, you help them develop as well into stronger and more Godly people.

People all around you are watching you. You may realize your influence on some of them, like your spouse, your children, or your fellow church members or coworkers. But often there are others who admire and learn from you at a distance. If you want to be a consistent positive influence on others, embrace the responsibility of what you do. This will not only meet your needs, but it will also be a good example for others to follow.

Selah people' and friends list or think of several people today whom you influence. Consider what kind of impact you have had on them in the past. Think of ways to continue your positive effect in their lives.

"Remember that you do make a difference in the lives of others."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Church Leaders Report ~ 5-13-2009

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God's Blessing on you and our community.

In Christ,

Rev Patrick Muston, pastor

Selah Christian Church ~ Four Oaks, NC

Looking for Handouts

Giving to help others can be so much more than just giving of your money...

Today's Scripture:

Freely you have received, freely give.

Matthew 10:8

Giving is more than funding charitable causes. Giving is stewardship of your time, talents, and treasure to impact others. Your time is possibly your most valuable resource. Unlike other resources, it cannot be recycled, replenished, or recaptured. Once it is given, it is gone. Yet, even with such great worth, time is often overlooked as a worthwhile investment in giving. Consider spending time with a cherished colleague, lonely acquaintance, or even an inquisitive new staff member.

Talent is another precious resource that can be freely given to benefit others. Talent is more than being artistically or musically inclined.

Skills, abilities, and giftedness are all forms of talent.

You may not be able to volunteer as the director of a large project but your skills may make you perfect for another task...recently we had several people who could bake that helped raise funds for Relay for life. That's right a cake that was used to help another. View your abilities and skills as assets given from God and choose to share them with others.

Jesus stated that where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. So your treasure is also important to share with others. Whether you are tithing to your local church,donating money to a homeless shelter, or buying or making gifts for underprivileged children or men and women serving in our military, your treasure can be a significant source of encouragement to others. Be willing to give of yourself freely to others through your attention, your abilities, and your assets.

Selah people' and friends set aside five minutes to list as many of your talents, skills, abilities, hobbies, and interests as you can. Then think of ways that you can share one of your assets with others. Remember they are your brothers and sisters and they need you and the gifts that God has given you to share.

"God grace and peace be yours when you and I learn to share the fruit that God has given us."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston (via mobile ~ Westbrook Park ~ Mount Olive, NC)

Pineapple Perspective

How do you serve others and display true hospitality like Christ?

Today's Scripture:

Let us try to do what makes peace and helps one another.

Romans 14:19

Especially in southern states like ours, passersby recognize homes with displayed flags and stone monuments depicting pineapples as the symbol of hospitality. The southern tradition dates back to Colonial America. During that era, dinner parties were a main source of entertainment in the community. An exquisite host would display a pineapple as the central tabletop feature, as it was an exotic rarity. The pineapple became the icon of welcome and warmth that showed quests they were honored and loved.

You may not need to hold a pineapple dinner party, but you can show your hospitality to others in creative ways.

Whether someone is a guest in your home, your business, or as I see some times people touring our facility from another state or country, you can add the special touches that make them feel welcomed in such a way that can only happen in your community.

One simple way to create a warm environment is to shake a hand or give a hug, make eye contact, and welcome each person by name if you know it or they have a name tag, often if they don't I welcome by introducing who I am and ask their name personally. If you have a small meeting of say four, this is simple, if however it is a larger seminar style which we have at times, you might need to station people at the entry areas and have them greet your guests to keep that personal contact with each one. Offering refreshments, providing conversation, and helping others connect by introductions are other ways to make people feel at ease.

The pineapple my friends is not the only icon of hospitality. Jesus displayed a hospitable lifestyle of serving others. When you show your care for others in a way that serves them, you not only honor them, but you are following the example of Christ.

Selah people' and friends assess the first impression that your church facility, personal office or workplace displays to visitors. Add a personal touch of an unexpected decor or landscape or special refreshments. Create a warm and inviting atmosphere to greet your guests.

"May today be a new chance for us to offer hospitality to all we come in contact with."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Prosperous Plan

Know that God is planning your future even when

you can't see what good is to come from it!

Today's Scripture:

"I say this because I know what I am planning for you," says the Lord. "I have good plans for you, not plans to hurt you. I will give you hope and a good future."

Jeremiah 29:11

Jeremiah shared encouragement with people who were being held captive in Babylon. They had been told that they would reside there for at least seventy years. These people could not see a happy ending from where they were standing as prisoners. They felt hopeless. But Jeremiah provided a different perspective for them to grasp.

Being in a difficult place does not seem that it would stimulate hope.

But hope is a by-product of problems.

Challenges produce patience; patience produces character; and character produces hope. A new military recruit may not enjoy every day of boot camp, but on graduation day the recruit appreciates the skill, endurance and courage that the rigors of training have refined. An office manager may not covet the training process of learning and using new software, but when the processes are more effective and efficient, the manager appreciates the increased profits. For the recruit and manager alike, fleeting moments of doubt and discomfort and even sometimes discouragement can be replaced by confidence and enthusiasm when the result hoped for becomes evident.

God allows you and I to understand the value of blessings through your circumstances that take you on the journey to hope. So, when God promises hope, realize that it may come from an unexpected process and may even be painful. Have hope in God, believing that his heart is to do what is best for you. Hope will never disappoint because it remains optimistic. When God is the source of your hope, you can believe in a better future that prospers your efforts. We can do this even when we have no way to see what the future really may hold for us. Be you encouraged to cling to the plan that God has for you.

Selah people' and friends identify a challenge you are facing. Instead of focusing on the difficulties of the challenge, reflect on the benefits of succeeding in the situation and what it will be like to come out in victory on the other side. Speak or write your hope for the future out in prayer and remain optimistic until it comes to be.

"Remember today when God is the one doing the planning we do not have to doubt that where and how He is taking us is definitely the way we need to go. Our goal then is to believe that His way is also the best way to get there."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ via mobile - Mount Olive, NC ~ Westbrooke Park

No Yes-Men Needed

I'm so thankful Mom told it like it was...

Today's Scripture:

Good leaders cultivate honest speech; they love advisors who tell them the truth.

Proverbs 16:13

If honesty is the best policy, why are some people so afraid to tell (or hear) the truth? Many

times the truth brings disagreement or even conflict. In an endeavor to avoid the truth. But ignoring the truth does not change it. Pretending that all is well when trouble is brewing does not make all well. Instead, it causes distrust, frustration, or disaster. Even though confronting with the truth may be difficult, all conflict is not to bad.

Some conflict, such as disagreement on a project idea, initiates discussion or debate that may produce creativity, innovation, passion, and challenge. Although conflict is present, it spurs you on to function more effectively. This type of functional conflict can even become a creative zone for your team. Your task in constructing a creative zone to provide an environment in which people are free to discuss their ideas in a nonthreatening atmosphere. People will not speak openly and truthfully if they fear repercussions or retaliation. As people see you respect and consider their ideas, they are more likely to freely contribute their honest thoughts.

A confident leader doesn't need a bunch of other people always in agreement with him.

Rather, a confident leader needs others to challenge his ideas, convictions, and methods so that fresh insight may be revealed. As your team embraces truth telling, you will gain the sincere feedback you need to be effective in leadership and also allow others to grow in the tasks that you encourage by listening and nurturing.

Selah people' and friends target procedure, method or policy that needs to change. Initiate a discussion and cultivate a little creative conflict to stir enthusiasm and imagination. Challenge the group to negotiate their ideas about a change that is needed. Choose to grow yourself and those around you by not just sitting back and agreeing, also don't be offended when others have different ideas or ways of doing it. Keep the main thing the main thing...it should be about what God wants and not about ourselves.

"Mom really was a tell it like it is person who could also encourage you to share your ideas. Let us not be just agreeing robots but take what Mom taught us into our daily lives as students, parents, workers or everywhere Christ takes us."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Shining Stars...

Do you accept the responsibility God gives you to shine your light?

Today's Scripture:

You will be innocent and without any wrong. You will be God's children without fault. But you are living with crooked and mean people all around you, among whom you shine like stars in the dark world. You offer the teaching that gives life.

Philippians 2:15-16

An amazing thing about gazing at stars on a dark night is that the blanket of darkness does not cover the stars, but actually enhances the beauty of the brightness. The display proves that light is more powerful than darkness. Just as a candle disrupts the cloak of darkness in a room, you are to be the light that interrupts the darkness in another person's world.

Being a shining star carries the responsibility of offering light to those who are hopeless or heartless. By living a lifestyle of holiness, you offer the teaching that shines God's love and light for others to see. Holiness I know sounds intimidating to some people. I know for myself and my wife when God first called me into ministry I thought I am not Holy or good enough to stand a the front of the church or talk to the people on the street or in the hospital and tell them how to live. For my wife I know when she married me I was no where near a preacher so how could I then expect her to carry the burden of being the preacher's wife.

What we both have found as we have grown in Christ and our faith life is that holiness is not the same as legalism, religion, or even conservatism.

Holiness simply means that you are striving to live an uncompromising life that pleases God.

This does not imply that you are better or higher...just that you are trying to live and shine the light that God has placed in you.

When you allow God to use you by showing others consideration where you are at as a pickle worker, teacher, coach, student, retiree or whatever your position in life, you are offering life-giving principles to them. Express godly character by extending mercy when it is not expected or by offering a joyful response to a negative situation. Holiness isn't hard. It can be a simple as an expression of hope to someone facing a challenge in life. Being a shining star may not bring you personal gain or fame, it may cause people to fear you, but regardless when you shine the light God has placed in you it will give others around you the life and hope that God offers to brighten their gloomy world.

Selah people' and friends let your light shine! Share the credit for success, congratulate a colleague or coworkers who have done a great job on a project or broke a record, or send an encouraging card or email to an ill coworker. Seek out ways to express God's love through your actions.

"Remember God has placed the light within each of us and it is our responsibility to share it with others and be true Shining Stars that he has made us to be in this dark world. Will you join me today in shining our light for Jesus?"

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ via mobile Westbrooke Park Mount Olive, NC

God's Stress Test

What condition is your heart in?

Today's Scripture:

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my thoughts.

Psalm 139:23

Cardiologists often use a stress test to reveal the condition of a patients heart. The exam will indicate if enough oxygen is flowing to the heart. It can also predict whether potential risks of serious problems are present. The procedure of the stress test is for the patient to walk on a treadmill for several minutes. While on his or her stationary journey, the walker speeds their pace on a progressive incline as the doctor increases the demand for performance. The physically demanding test pushes the heart to a stress point to detect problems and weaknesses.

God sometimes gives a stress test too. Like a doctor, he examines your heart to reveal your weaknesses and surface potential illness.

Often your heart can be tested by the challenging situations that anger you. When you are pushed to your limit of patience, your words can reveal the condition of your heart. Painful situations can also test your heart's strength. When you are hurt or betrayed, your willingness to forgive is an indicator of a healthy heart.

The purpose of a stress test is to examine the condition of the heart before any damage is done to it. The test reveals what corrections and preventive methods need to be put into place to maintain optimal health. Regular heart checkups, both physical and spiritual, can keep you in a strong condition to fulfill your purpose. So you should guard the condition of your heart.

Today I experienced a day that would qualify as a stress test with the progressive incline of challenges. Some where past the middle of the day when I had worked through lunch, then through break I reached the peak and as I was about lose sight of the prize God reminded me of my weakness and where I can improve. Once that moment occurred I was able to carry on and nothing else that came at me was going to stand in my way. Often when we' pay attention to
God's test and the results we can move forward with a heart that God intended.

Selah people' and friends ask God to look deep into your heart. If you detect unforgiveness, stress, or anxiety, begin a wellness plan today. Seek ways to decrease your anxiety and increase your peace.

"God knows your heart and thoughts so choose today to learn and grow from the weaknesses that God reveals in the tests of life."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

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Do you meditate on the word day and night?

Today's Scripture:

This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.

Joshua 1:8

You have only so many hours in the week. You work more than forty hours; perhaps you volunteer or help out with church projects several hours per week; eat, sleep, hopefully spend quality time with your family in the remainder. You seemingly do not have much time left, certainly not 24/7, to meditate on the Bible. Balancing life is challenging for many people. The truth is that by embracing the truths of the Bible, you actually can live more accordingly with God's plan, which breeds prosperity and success.

The solution to balancing life is the ability to multitask. I share this with as a chronic multi-tasker I speak from which I have known most of my life...from age 8. In our spiritual lives we can be just as creative to help make our time more productive.

You can employ many strategies for meditating on the Bible by integrating it into other tasks and areas of your life.

By listening to worship or Christian praise music while preparing for your day, you not only energize your spirit but learn the Bible too. Whether you carpool or catch another type of ride or transportation be it bus, subway or in your car, you can listen to Scripture or spiritual meditations via CD or on you Ipod or mp3 player or by playing inspirational audio books during your commute to and from work.

Sharing a family memory verse is another way to meditate on the Bible with your family. I had some old blank business card stationary for my home office printer that worked great for this...just put the verse and where it came from on the card and you could print out several for you family to carry with them during the week. Often if you have them your children or grandchildren can provide the verse from one they learned in their Sunday school class at church. This makes them fill vested in your family's spiritual growth. You can review the verse daily at breakfast or at the dinner table. Dinner talk can be a great time for informal devotions with your spouse or family. In business, you can put this into practice through your company newsletter, thought-of-the-day email, or some worked into that weekly staff meeting. I find that if I ask of special needs or friends or family members with needs I always have the moment of spiritual connection with my workers.

Selah people and friends think creatively to find ways to incorporate your desire to learn the Bible into your other priorities in life. Determine at least one strategy and put it into practice this week.

"Today is the best time to start incorporating God's word into more parts of your life daily."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Take a Load Off...

Be willing to trust God is the key to our success.

Today's Scripture:

Commit your work to the Lord, and then your plans will succeed.

Proverbs 16:3

God's will for you to love, forgive, and encourage others is reveled in the Bible. But what about some of life's questions, such as whether or not you should accept a job offer? Life would be easy if you could simply turn to Scripture and get a yes or no answer. In fact, the answers to many of life's questions can be found if you commit your work to God.

First of all, you should not work for your own interest, but for God's purposes. Your plans and achievements are not yours alone. You share them with God. You can trust him with them. Allow God to be glorified in your hard work. Plan your steps and set goals, but maintain a loose a grip on them. Be willing to make adjustments as needed.

Trust that in success or challenge, God is faithful and sovereign in your life.

When you maintain a willingness to trust God with your dreams and commit your plans to him, he will help you align those dreams to his plan for you. Notice that he does not bend his will to your thoughts; rather, he molds your desires to his will. You can trust that your dreams and desires are God's will for you when you think from the conviction of your heart along with the reasoning of your mind.

Selah people' and friends think about and list three of your biggest goals or dreams that God has put on your heart and mind. Pray about each one and commit it to God and his will. Then make a flexible plan of action to accomplish each.

"You have given a precious gift of God's dream and plan for your life, choose today to work hard all that God has for you and then you can lay your head down and take a load off knowing that you did your part in His plan."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Favor

Journal a list of good things that you'd like for God to help do in your life then highlight the ways that God extends his favor to you each day.

Today's Scripture:

Remember this is my favor, O my God.

Nehemiah 13:31

You get to know others by learning their favorite things. You may discover their favorite foods, hobbies, book, or television programs. You may even have favorite friends that you prefer to spend time with. With those friends you may not mind asking for a favor. The word favor means "good things." You might give your spouse a list of ideas for your birthday gifts, but to ask God to show you a favor? It almost sounds presumptuous.

God can be your closest friend though if you will let him in. Throughout the Scriptures, he gives you permission to ask for good things from him. Because of Christ, you can approach God and stand in his favor. He is ever-present in your life, waiting and wanting to respond with favor. You do not have to be invited to the right party or business luncheon to make a connection.

You can link up to God through prayer 24/7/365. He has all the connections you and I will ever need.

If you need to be noticed at a school, sports, work or a meeting it is OK to ask God to show you favor. If you need to sell more products or be more efficient about getting a project or paper done, you can request God's assistance. God can open opportunities in unexpected ways for you. He can give you the wisdom, creativity, and innovation to make the right impressions. When you ask for God's favor, you may find that you get what you ask for from him.

Selah people' and friends journal a list of good things you would like for God to do in your life. Prayerfully consider each. Be ready to highlight the ways God extends his favor toward you in your journal or on your calendar. You'll be amazed what God can and will do. The word reminds us we have not cause we asked not.

"Choose today to remember as one of God's children you have his "Favor" just waiting for you to have faith and believe."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ Via mobile in Dobbersville, NC

Rich Generosity

Often when you give not expecting anything

in return you will be blessed...

Today's Scripture:

There is one who scatters, yet increases more; and there is one who withholds more than is right, but it leads to poverty. The generous soul will be made rich, and he who waters will also be watered himself.

Proverbs 11: 24-25

You give, yet you receive more. You are generous, yet you are made rich. The principle is puzzling. However, look at the number of organizations such as Shriner's Hospitals, Ronald McDonald House Charities, and St. Jude's Children's Hospital that give away free services to children in need of serious help. They give generously of their services, but they receive abundantly from others to further fund their giving of more services to others. The principle works: generosity makes you rich.

Many people think of generosity as giving money. But generosity is making what you have to offer available to others, and that can be more than just money. Whatever you have in your hand can be offered. Florida had a record number of hurricanes tear through many counties within only a few weeks' time. Many homes and businesses were without electricity, water, even rooftops. The amazing thing about the news reports was that instead of showing people looting those buildings, the majority reported that neighbors were sharing homes, generators, and water. When they compiled all that they had together, they all benefited from each person's contribution.

You are generous, yet you are made rich. The principle is puzzling.

What you have to offer is of value to someone, whether it is as simple as water or as extravagant as a new car or truck as was given in the movie "Facing the Giants" to the coach who was in need. As you find ways to become more generous, you can expect to be blessed too.

Selah people' and friends others need what you have to offer. It could be as simple as a call,an email or text, a cake, a call or a visit, maybe just a handshake or hug. Whether your wealth lies in your expertise, creativity, or encouragement, extend a gracious offer to help others. Don't wait until someone is in a crisis to be generous.

"How has God blessed you? How can you be a blessing to someone else? Remember it is not just money it may be just giving of yourself that will help touch the life of someone else. Do it for Christ and the blessings will be abundant."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

I've Fallen And Can't Get Up...

Reach out today to help others in trouble?

Today's Scripture:

Two people can accomplish more than twice as much as one; they get a better return for their labor. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But people who are alone when they fall are in real trouble.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

God's math doesn't always seem to make sense. if two people work together, you would reason that twice the work could be accomplished. Since this is the Bible, the principle must be universal, and so it seems it is. A team brainstorming new ideas can formulate a more exhaustive and creative list than one person alone. Partners that conquer projects together can finish in a fraction of the time that one could finish the job. In manufacturing I have found that production lines seem to multiply the expected production exponentially beyond the number of workers on the line.

Everyone has moments of falling. Some people fall behind in their workload. Others fall apart in difficult situations. Having a friend to help you in those times where a free fall is impending is not only comforting, but can also help you maintain your focus on being productive. When you have a friend beside you, he can help keep you from falling in the first place by supporting and encouraging you. Then, if you do begin to slip, he can catch you or help you back onto your feet.

The key to partnership accomplishment seems to be altruism: which is the willingness of one to reach out and help the other. God said in Proverbs 18:24 that if you want friends, you must show yourself to be friendly. I'll never forget early in my own ministry I went on an Emmaus Walk weekend at Surf City and one of the lay speakers said the words "to have a friend, be a friend and lead a friend to Christ." To this day I carry that in the back of mind reminding me as I meet new friends and God gives an opportunity to just help them move a little further down the road of their spiritual walk, not overwhelming them but just being a helping hand and a good friend, just as Christ was the "good shepherd". Friendship is truly a reciprocal collaboration.

Selah people' and friends if you have a business coworker, partner, friend or spouse, consider how mutual your assistance and encouragement are for each other. Reach out to him or her with a helping hand today.

"Carpe Diem, "seize the day"...God is so good and how great it is for you and I to reach out to our brothers and sisters in need today. It really helps you see how blessed you are when you can help others."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston ~ via mobile Jen's VW headed to Smithfield for lunch

Money Isn't Everything

Seize the chance to choose wisdom over wealth...

Today's Scripture:

How much better to get wisdom than gold! And to get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.

Proverbs 16:16

Money seems to be the bottom line for so many decisions in business and in families. The quality-versus-quantity debate is discussed between teenagers and their parents and among executive boards and upper management of manufacturing companies.

At times you must make a decision between the potential of wealth and the opportunity of learning.

Chick-fil-A my favorite fast food restaurants is a n ideal example of this challenge. For over sixty years, the company's founder, Truett Cathy, has kept a "never on Sunday" policy in place. The organization firmly believes that their employees should have an opportunity to enjoy family and worship on Sunday if they choose. Although it has been suggested that the company is jeopardizing profits, Chick-fil-A is satisfied as the nation's second largest quick-service chicken restaurant chain reporting more than 1.7 billion dollars in 2004 system-wide sales. Another area where Chick-fil-A has been questioned concerning profit possibilities is their franchise opportunities. The company is quite selective in allowing franchises. Over the last year, they approved fewer than one hundred applicants out of a pool of more than ten thousand interested buyers. The company is confident that maintaining their standards and values is more important than attaining a higher bottom-line profit.

You may not be in a position to close your business on Sunday, but you may have a choice of whether or not to work on your day of worship. Consider the possibilities, come up with alternatives, weigh your options, and make your decision.

Selah people' and friends opportunities to choose wisdom over wealth are all around. Examine your recent choices between earning money and gleaning insight. Be sure you are budgeting your life wisely.

"Take time today to choose wisdom over wealth and invest in your relationship with family, friends and most importantly your relationship with God."

Your pastor,

Rev Patrick Muston

Selah Christian Church ~ Sermon Link from Sunday April 26th, 2009